Not all men seem to understand that, you are right. As a woman that has a responsible somewhat stressful position all day long …. at the end of the day I want someone else to take charge, take control. I want to be with a dominate man.I agree with you.
The "respectable" life is stressful, and many women need to let go -- to be used, abused, humiliated -- as a release. For women who work for a living, the more stress and responsibility their job has, the more likely they are to need BDSM.