You seem impatient. If you persist with that kind of impatience, one or two things will happen. She will do it just to shut you up and may even resent you for it, or it will push her away. Now keep in mind as the saying goes, careful what you wish for. Don't get mad or hurt and your next posting on here is asking how to get her back cause she ran off with a black man. Just saying , but all in all, be patient and let her come to it in her own time. It will be much more enjoyable for her and for you.