Wife is ready but not accepting it

[sexycouple08]

You don't want to push too hard or she might not ever want to.

Thats why i am writing and thanks for your comments, what should i do

 

[beenblackened]

Thats why i am writing and thanks for your comments, what should i do

Just keep talking to her about how you want to see her with a BBC and how excited you are about it. Have her message me here and I'll chat with her.

 

[sexycouple08]

Just keep talking to her about how you want to see her with a BBC and how excited you are about it. Have her message me here and I'll chat with her.

I wil try to do this

 

[erika9009]

Be patient with her or it will backfire.

Just to understand you mean that if i push fast forward to happen it will be different than to be patient and it will happen more naturally when she also is ready?

Pretty much.
If you rush her, she may never go there or just "dabble"
If she is ready and into it, she might go further and sooner.

 

[minnGuy]

She is not ready if she doesn’t want it. Just let her enjoy where she is at.

 

[Twodogsxxx1972]

You don't want to push too hard or she might not ever want to.

When she’s ready, she’ll let you know. You’ve already planted the seed.

 

[MsEzGreen]

Don’t push or rush the idea! Don’t be too eager! It’s gotta be consensual for both parties. Let her do it at her pace, not yours.

 

[neefiboy]

My 2 cents.
If she enjoys the idea of playing with a real bbc let her know you’ll support her. But if she wants it to remain a fantasy then that’s good too. Just support what you both are willing to accept. Play to the lowest level of acceptance. And that goes both ways.