BBC Dildo discussion

Notjustvanilla said:
I see a lot of individual posts about someone buying a black dildo, but have yet to see a comprehensive thread. That people can use to find the right toy for themselves(or their partner)

What toys are you hooked on? How length, girth, functions, cost…I assume they are all black.

Links and pics would be great. Let’s help each other find some new experiences!
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Toys are serious business. In my opinion if you want to do them right you're going to need several and you'll make a few different collections for different times and different purposes.
 
What led you and your wife to get your first dildo? I feel like most wives would be hesitant to try something like that if they've never used one before. They might also feel like it's weird to add another dick if they're largely happy with their sex life. Just trying to understand the best way to frame this.
 
had_couple said:
What led you and your wife to get your first dildo? I feel like most wives would be hesitant to try something like that if they've never used one before. They might also feel like it's weird to add another dick if they're largely happy with their sex life. Just trying to understand the best way to frame this.
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Tell her you've had a fantasy you've been keeping to yourself for a while, that you really want to see her riding a big cock!
If your average or below average sized tell her you love her and don't want to miss out on the experience.
Ask her if she's curious to try more than one dick at the same time, just get a big dildo and ask her if she thinks a bigger one could be hot.
 
Pawglover3333 said:
Tell her you've had a fantasy you've been keeping to yourself for a while, that you really want to see her riding a big cock!
If your average or below average sized tell her you love her and don't want to miss out on the experience.
Ask her if she's curious to try more than one dick at the same time, just get a big dildo and ask her if she thinks a bigger one could be hot.
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Thanks for the tip. Some of these ideas seem bad for my situation, but it's getting the wheels turning. She's anti-porn at the moment, so I do need to avoid implying that I've seen anything like that recently. Everything has to be from imagination alone.
 
Notjustvanilla said:
I see a lot of individual posts about someone buying a black dildo, but have yet to see a comprehensive thread. That people can use to find the right toy for themselves(or their partner)

What toys are you hooked on? How length, girth, functions, cost…I assume they are all black.

Links and pics would be great. Let’s help each other find some new experiences!
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Its all individual on what feels good or whats right for each woman. There is no generic one fits all list.
 
Anyone recommend a super beginner dildo that has a heat option as well as thrusting/vibration?? We have an extender sleeve that adds about 3 inches (I cant wear it unless extremely rock hard) and it vibrates but my wife recently told me she doesnt like the cold non real feeling of it inside her and that's why she wont try it. I know I know, get her the real thing... that's not an option YET. So anyone have any recs on beginner black dildos with a heating option?
 
thedrkknight said:
Anyone recommend a super beginner dildo that has a heat option as well as thrusting/vibration?? We have an extender sleeve that adds about 3 inches (I cant wear it unless extremely rock hard) and it vibrates but my wife recently told me she doesnt like the cold non real feeling of it inside her and that's why she wont try it. I know I know, get her the real thing... that's not an option YET. So anyone have any recs on beginner black dildos with a heating option?
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Question for anyone to answer, why not just preheat it? Once it goes in, seems like it would stay warm. Also, texture probably matters a lot, so the more realistic ones are probably a good idea.
 
had_couple said:
Question for anyone to answer, why not just preheat it? Once it goes in, seems like it would stay warm. Also, texture probably matters a lot, so the more realistic ones are probably a good idea.
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How would you recommend we preheat it? And yes realistic is my preference for sure but a lot of the ones that thrust and are heated online are ver fake looking.
 
thedrkknight said:
How would you recommend we preheat it? And yes realistic is my preference for sure but a lot of the ones that thrust and are heated online are ver fake looking.
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IDK, I'm hoping someone had a good solution. Some people wrap them in wet towels and microwave, but a warmer by the bedside would be nice. I'm wondering if this would be a good idea: https://www.amazon.com/Incubator-Automatic-Temperature-Integrated-Assurance/dp/B0D3PY6QML/ref=mp_s_a_1_9?crid=7CSD96PCW35Y&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Ie2UYTavY3s5tSuEEtzZqP3MCeM9V2Kdwb2eqPaWSBOKFlKpMav5ueY71_2gne1jNOa52kIy_2EC9yIKWUZGQVijlgIdButREinUzxNWJBTn1ae02GyoHDT1z0iGggtGyedQaFSvYwq9spNP1wKk7T1UvX0zwYMKnV8XoIis_Da379HYGM0yHVPf1Cpa3D3YNaGpRX9Rxk5V2o49F6iAbw.TZS0aLnsMlNTJLtUAGjveVgIaU9MZ3wbCIcECfh0xSs&dib_tag=se&keywords=incubator&qid=1731203915&sprefix=incuba,aps,105&sr=8-9

Or this: https://www.kinkly.com/products/warm-sex-toy-warmer

IDK though, I haven't bought these. Also, the second link is basically a mini repurposed electric blanket. So maybe one of those?

A guy on reddit recommended keeping the toys in a hot water thermos filled with warm water. This seems like the way to go especially if you already have a large thermos or insulated coffee cup.

On 3rd thought: https://www.amazon.com/Heating-Pad-...1731204651&sprefix=heating+pad,aps,101&sr=8-3
 
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had_couple said:
IDK, I'm hoping someone had a good solution. Some people wrap them in wet towels and microwave, but a warmer by the bedside would be nice. I'm wondering if this would be a good idea: https://www.amazon.com/Incubator-Automatic-Temperature-Integrated-Assurance/dp/B0D3PY6QML/ref=mp_s_a_1_9?crid=7CSD96PCW35Y&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Ie2UYTavY3s5tSuEEtzZqP3MCeM9V2Kdwb2eqPaWSBOKFlKpMav5ueY71_2gne1jNOa52kIy_2EC9yIKWUZGQVijlgIdButREinUzxNWJBTn1ae02GyoHDT1z0iGggtGyedQaFSvYwq9spNP1wKk7T1UvX0zwYMKnV8XoIis_Da379HYGM0yHVPf1Cpa3D3YNaGpRX9Rxk5V2o49F6iAbw.TZS0aLnsMlNTJLtUAGjveVgIaU9MZ3wbCIcECfh0xSs&dib_tag=se&keywords=incubator&qid=1731203915&sprefix=incuba,aps,105&sr=8-9

Or this: https://www.kinkly.com/products/warm-sex-toy-warmer

IDK though, I haven't bought these. Also, the second link is basically a mini repurposed electric blanket. So maybe one of those?

A guy on reddit recommended keeping the toys in a hot water thermos filled with warm water. This seems like the way to go especially if you already have a large thermos or insulated coffee cup.

On 3rd thought: https://www.amazon.com/Heating-Pad-Electric-Abdomen-Heated-Shoulder/dp/B0D1QFZB5Q/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?crid=1NK3S8EBZ9GD1&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.BXrkFpn5zsJQj5_zc5t4qxJkoJY9dFvUZONvQAoYZs5cXHiFLvAc568c-14Drqa7ON_yATp1Y9zKGQG0BIHLL-HYIhZzX2k7htGDoVWAs9Dj3ynfO6bg-zFGp3bnxqduy-Y4-3kID5DdRDYD24Qeu28AH-bzaUJG6OKyyGqKKvQLKaPufQGZTPNUA32vUdzpc2MvyND8djTagM_Ubmu5xQ.IzvkCi7MqbBLxhg9_8f8ngdypWrggzq4LHUncT5AeDA&dib_tag=se&keywords=heating+pad&qid=1731204651&sprefix=heating+pad,aps,101&sr=8-3
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These are great thank you for the help! Ill try the warm water idea and see if that helps to start. Not sure how i never thought of that lol thanks!
 
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