Ask Wife about Ghanaian Ex-boyfriend

[Doja12]

Been married to my wife (Asian) for almost 12 years. We met in her country and her boyfriend before me was from Ghana. He was her first non-Asian boyfriend and she had minimal sexual experience before him. I think they dated for like six months.

Ever since she told me this when we first started dating about 15 years ago, I’ve always wanted to talk to her about it but haven’t. He actually lied about where he was from so that is a sore subject for her.

I always think what it was like for her to have sex with this guy knowing that Ghanaians are supposed to be well-endowed and her only being with Asian guys before. How many times did they have sex, how big he was, how she felt, what positions did they do, etc. I can’t stop thinking about it and fantasize about her with him.

Should I ask her about it or just keep fantasizing?!

 

[rahvin]

Man some black aren't big... if she is asian she is not big too i fuck some asians

 

[Doja12]

I hear you and I am not ashamed of my size at all but just curious. what if he was really big and she went from little experience with Asian guys (no offense but I’ve been in bath houses) to a huge one with a different fucking style. Something I can’t get out of my mind....
She is a petite Asian with a nice ass so the images just pop in my head.

 

[Doja12]

 

[BBC5555]

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, My Man, I can help ya out with Wifey.

 

[Doja12]

, My Man, I can help ya out with Wifey.

I’ve never approached her about that before. Ha. I think about her past experience but haven’t thought about creating a new one. Hmm

 

[BBC5555]

I’ve never approached her about that before. Ha. I think about her past experience but haven’t thought about creating a new one. Hmm

, Bet Wifey Hasn't 4-Got That Black Dick....

 

[Doja12]

, Bet Wifey Hasn't 4-Got That Black Dick....

I assume she hasn’t. First non-Asian and who knows how hard he laid it on her...

Now I’m thinking about future experience.

 

[squillie]

Guys from Africa usually have a big long dick, around 40 ~ 50 cm.
They must fuck every 6 ~ 8 hours or so.
They usually do it in weird positions and must change every time to please their heathen god of lust.
If they don't obey those rules they might just drop dead all of a sudden.

 

[Stevens]

On a night when you are both in a sexy mood, have a couple of drinks and take her to bed - chat with her about it. It's not unlike telling your wife about your fantasy to see her have sex with another man - it can never happen unless you let her know. Go slow, emphasize the fantasy aspects and encourage her to share her deepest fantasies with you! You'll be surprised what you learn!

 

[Bellaazz]

On a night when you are both in a sexy mood, have a couple of drinks and take her to bed - chat with her about it. It's not unlike telling your wife about your fantasy to see her have sex with another man - it can never happen unless you let her know. Go slow, emphasize the fantasy aspects and encourage her to share her deepest fantasies with you! You'll be surprised what you learn!

I agree with this. I had always wanted to hear about my wife's past experiences but wasn't sure how to bring it up. Then one time after we had sex where she didn't feel me much, she apologized saying one of her previous lovers was so huge, that he probably stretched her out. My cock jumped and then I asked her and she seemed to really enjoy telling me all the details, especially when she saw how hard it made me. From then on it was a popular "pillow talk" subject

 

[Harry007]

Been married to my wife (Asian) for almost 12 years. We met in her country and her boyfriend before me was from Ghana. He was her first non-Asian boyfriend and she had minimal sexual experience before him. I think they dated for like six months.

Ever since she told me this when we first started dating about 15 years ago, I’ve always wanted to talk to her about it but haven’t. He actually lied about where he was from so that is a sore subject for her.

I always think what it was like for her to have sex with this guy knowing that Ghanaians are supposed to be well-endowed and her only being with Asian guys before. How many times did they have sex, how big he was, how she felt, what positions did they do, etc. I can’t stop thinking about it and fantasize about her with him.

Should I ask her about it or just keep fantasizing?!

Of course you should ask her !! She knows you well now !...

 

[eyespy07]

Your wife looks quite attractive from the back. Maybe Filipina or Korean? She must think about him frequently especially if he had a "bad boy" vibe or the sex was especially good. BTW, women never really divulge that info because it can damage their current man' ego or self image. Did you meet her all those years ago after she and her Ghanaian ex broke up? Maybe he was her first (and only) bad boy and you were the one she saw a future with? A lot of times, women think this way.

Regardless, I would approach this carefully maybe during a moment of passion or while you two are doing everyday things. For example, you could be watching sports or a movie and a fit black celebrity comes on the screen....and you take it from there. Under the radar comments or questions are you best bet on finding out what's on your wife's mind, my friend.