Are All black men rough with us?
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Mickey Grey
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White men forget that women sometimes simply want to be taken. I was in my 30s before a girlfriend told me that there were times when all she wanted was for me to walk in the door grab her and take her without a word. Of course being a white man I had never learned this and at my age it was to late to be that man. Yes she left me for someone else. When I married my current wife she made me her cuckold for that same reason. Well that was one of many reasons
Mickey Grey
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I think what we call rough is simply masculine confidence. Black men are not the least bit ashamed of being men, while white men seem to want to apologize for it. The consequences of course is that more and more women, especially white women are attracted to black men. There have always been two types of men in a woman's life. One is the caring, nurturing safe one (White man) and the other is the one that makes them want to surrender sexually (black men). When I was a younger man I wanted to be the one they surrendered to, but as I got older and wiser I realized that not only was I not capable of being the conquerer, but I actually preferred being the safe one. Now I adore women that fall under the masculine spell of black men and am more than willing to play my part as the safe provider.
You have to figure out where you belong in life and I have very happily found my place
You have to figure out where you belong in life and I have very happily found my place
i like it rough 
and you know this because?
This is what men want to think but it is not true.
Not all black men!
good news and much appreciated Leo thank you
We learned early on in the lifestyle that a roomful of black men, particularly if one of them “owns” you- are not to be controlled. Its sort of like skydiving or white water rafting (no pun intended). Once you are fully committed, you just have o ride it out and do whatever is necessary to survive.
If you have a Dom/bull there that owns your wife or both of you, then he will almost certainly control the situation. Of course, control will be his definition of it - not yours or your wife’s. It also helps if you have a bareback arrangement with your dom. If he is cumming in your wife, he will be careful who he allows to cum in her. That helps tremendously. If he is assertive with the other men there, all you have to worry about in the end is your Dom’s limits and entertaining his friends the way he wants. Be careful not to do anything whatsoever to embarrass your Dom or give the other men anything to challenge him with or give him ******* about. If you do, he will need to reestablish his dominance. This will almost certainly involve something unpleasant for your wife or both of you. In the end, you are going to submit, so just do it really well on the front end.
If you do not have a Dom there, or another man that owns your wife or both of you, it gets more complicated. You will need, early on, to figure out either who the leader in the room is or who is the most dominant - the one who can kick ass if he needs to do so. That’s your man. Signal your wife. Make sure she pays “special” attention to him. She needs to subtly let the other men in the room know he is “The Big Dick” (even if technically he isn’t). This man is your “sponsor” for the night or weekend. He is going to make sure your wife is safe and doesn’t get played too much. He is going to take care to make sure the thugs don’t bust your wife out too badly.
If you are concerned about the men deciding to forego condoms once things get cranked up - a very real probability if left to their own devices - then find an chance to take The Big Dick aside, and, just cut a deal with him. Let him know that you and your wife “knew right away that he was ‘The Big Dog’ in the room” and you need to rely on him to take care of your wife “for you." Don’t be prideful at a time like this, because its fucking true. Let him know that your wife knows he’s the "Big Dog” (we actually had one with this name) in the room and she is going to make sure he is well taken care of at all times. Look him in the eye and thank him profusely and often. Get him his drinks. Defer to him with the other men that are there. Call him “Sir” even if he doesn’t insist upon it.
You need to take care of this early, before your wife gets too far into the party. Once the dress and panties come off and the room wreaks of pussy, the dog pile is on and all you can do is hang on and try to survive and not piss any of them off.
Just some thoughts.
If you have a Dom/bull there that owns your wife or both of you, then he will almost certainly control the situation. Of course, control will be his definition of it - not yours or your wife’s. It also helps if you have a bareback arrangement with your dom. If he is cumming in your wife, he will be careful who he allows to cum in her. That helps tremendously. If he is assertive with the other men there, all you have to worry about in the end is your Dom’s limits and entertaining his friends the way he wants. Be careful not to do anything whatsoever to embarrass your Dom or give the other men anything to challenge him with or give him ******* about. If you do, he will need to reestablish his dominance. This will almost certainly involve something unpleasant for your wife or both of you. In the end, you are going to submit, so just do it really well on the front end.
If you do not have a Dom there, or another man that owns your wife or both of you, it gets more complicated. You will need, early on, to figure out either who the leader in the room is or who is the most dominant - the one who can kick ass if he needs to do so. That’s your man. Signal your wife. Make sure she pays “special” attention to him. She needs to subtly let the other men in the room know he is “The Big Dick” (even if technically he isn’t). This man is your “sponsor” for the night or weekend. He is going to make sure your wife is safe and doesn’t get played too much. He is going to take care to make sure the thugs don’t bust your wife out too badly.
If you are concerned about the men deciding to forego condoms once things get cranked up - a very real probability if left to their own devices - then find an chance to take The Big Dick aside, and, just cut a deal with him. Let him know that you and your wife “knew right away that he was ‘The Big Dog’ in the room” and you need to rely on him to take care of your wife “for you." Don’t be prideful at a time like this, because its fucking true. Let him know that your wife knows he’s the "Big Dog” (we actually had one with this name) in the room and she is going to make sure he is well taken care of at all times. Look him in the eye and thank him profusely and often. Get him his drinks. Defer to him with the other men that are there. Call him “Sir” even if he doesn’t insist upon it.
You need to take care of this early, before your wife gets too far into the party. Once the dress and panties come off and the room wreaks of pussy, the dog pile is on and all you can do is hang on and try to survive and not piss any of them off.
Just some thoughts.
No, not all black men are rough by nature. Most black guys I've been with are skilled in the fact that they start slow and easy, get me all warmed up and begging for it, then fuck me hard and deep like I'm a rag doll. I'm not into getting hit with fists and such. But instead getting balls deep by a man who's not afraid of laying pipe like a real man.
Speaking for myself, I enjoy flexing what size I do have and pushing you to uncharted territory
You're not alone.
It a a welcoming kind of pain when a bbc is rearranging your inside.
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Miket83
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Thats how i am gotta find out how much that pussy can take then give it just alil more when ur cummin on the dick
Not all black men are rough. I’ve been with several that have been very sensual.
I have been with black couples, black females and over ten different black males 1on1. All the males have been very gentle and nice people. I did have one black wife that pounded my sissy-pussy with her strapon cock. We met several times 3 ways and 1on1.
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