I don't think it has anything to do with just black men. Men of all races have different modes. I think with me and most black men, we are able to adapt to the woman's mode. If she wants rough, we give it to her rough, if ahe wants to be held or made love to, we give her that and with me, I'm able to hold, love, and romance at the same time, rough her up. It pretty much depends on how the woman is feeling. That's just with me, I'm not sire how other guys feel about this. With me, it's all about pleasing. My goal is to give explosive orgasms and give high adventures.