Are All black men rough with us?

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Brotha X, you'd be surprised how many women WANT and CRAVE being treated roughly. Pain is subjective... What might hurt to some is heavenly bliss to others. ;)

I get requests from women to treat them rough whilegiving them...DA DICK.


What I like to do is give them the strokes they like but I dominate them in other ways. Slapping their ass, pulling their hair, holding their hands, groping them stuff like that. It make it seem like I'm being rough with them but I'm not.

In reality what I'm doing is sort of pretending to be rough but I'm really giving them passionate strokes in their g-spot or areas they like.

I think white women in particular off my experience want to be taken sexually, and dominated vs being abused. For whatever reason the alpha females in my experience love submitting.
 
What's causing the "trend" of black men being rough with white girls, and how come some of us like it?? I've grown up expecting men to put me on a pedestal, but when they do I'm turned off.

I have this same experience. All my life I’ve expected to be placed in high regard. When I first had a black man he did not treat me with this expectation or that I was a precious little thing. He took me. He was rough and showed me he wanted me in a way that no previous lover ever had. That’s when I knew that I may be only attracted to black men forever
 
I have this same experience. All my life I’ve expected to be placed in high regard. When I first had a black man he did not treat me with this expectation or that I was a precious little thing. He took me. He was rough and showed me he wanted me in a way that no previous lover ever had. That’s when I knew that I may be only attracted to black men forever
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I have this same experience. All my life I’ve expected to be placed in high regard. When I first had a black man he did not treat me with this expectation or that I was a precious little thing. He took me. He was rough and showed me he wanted me in a way that no previous lover ever had. That’s when I knew that I may be only attracted to black men forever

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There is a damn issue here that keeps getting run over like a steam roller. I'm big and tough with a big cock and I fuck them white bitches like an *******. That does not make any male a MAN. A man is the guy who goes out to work every day and works hard to take care of a family. A man is the one who is there when his children need him. A man takes pride in himself and don't call women sluts and bitches. A man is respectful and good to other people. A man doesn't have children from a herd of women and leave them to fend for themselves and his *******. There are white men that are complete assholes and are more rough then even the black man. I am all for mixing the races anyway each person wants. I don't dislike black people and I do thing that they bring some special into the bedroom after all we are all different. All of these fetishes and the different kinks that people have, they are all okay as long as someone doesn't get hurt, A white Man that is married to a Black Only wife leaves him out of her sexual picture as far as her giving herself to black men and not him. That works for even a Real Man because he loves his wife and is willing to sacrifice his owe desire to make her happy.
 
Brotha X, you'd be surprised how many women WANT and CRAVE being treated roughly. Pain is subjective... What might hurt to some is heavenly bliss to others. ;)
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Women by nature find attractive strong, self confident and dominant men. It is a matter of instinct and natural selection. Moreover, sexual dimorphism contributes to it. Sometimes I find a bit ridiculous when a dominatrix 'controls' or 'dominates' a guy much bigger than her.

Maybe most of women don't want to live in a world full of sexual predators and macho men, but in sexual terms the criteria use to be clear. If you read fiction written by women and consumed by women this is the classic profile of the male character.

The problem with a lot of white men is that they seem to be brainwashed by feminism and political correctness and they don't dare to act as most of women want and desire. The racial difference may start very early. I have perceived explicit glances from 16-year-old black boys that made me blush.

I would add that many women that have a thing for black men expect some kind of sexual behavior from them, and with this bias it is not strange they have the impression all women are looking for rough sex. Beyond these facts, every woman has her own boundaries and may find 'rough' or not very different practices and situations.
 
Not into abuse - but I do like it a bit rough if that makes sense. As I develop a little trust with a guy then having my hair pulled, being spanked, held down, felt up in public, hard f*cking is very appreciated lol. I don't find that abusive in a steady relationship but if you tried that in the first 10 minutes I would....guess that's why I like steadies. Lately I find a lot sensual training (how to suck his cock. worship) to be very thrilling....but again as part of a regular sexual relationship....its the right way to push our buttons.
 
Women by nature find attractive strong, self confident and dominant men. It is a matter of instinct and natural selection. Moreover, sexual dimorphism contributes to it. Sometimes I find a bit ridiculous when a dominatrix 'controls' or 'dominates' a guy much bigger than her.

Maybe most of women don't want to live in a world full of sexual predators and macho men, but in sexual terms the criteria use to be clear. If you read fiction written by women and consumed by women this is the classic profile of the male character.

The problem with a lot of white men is that they seem to be brainwashed by feminism and political correctness and they don't dare to act as most of women want and desire. The racial difference may start very early. I have perceived explicit glances from 16-year-old black boys that made me blush.

I would add that many women that have a thing for black men expect some kind of sexual behavior from them, and with this bias it is not strange they have the impression all women are looking for rough sex. Beyond these facts, every woman has her own boundaries and may find 'rough' or not very different practices and situations.
I totally agree with you, but as well I do not think women should be treated as garbage, abused, beaten or injured.
 
I guess letting a man treat you like you like a piece of *******, because is something your mom had intended for you. And gives your children something to look up to.
 
Degrade yourself for sex? Both men and women. And yes negro men you degrade yourself by being called a three letter acronym. And yes women you allow this men to treat you like you like distilled hot dog water. Shame on both of you.
 
It's called respect. If that man doesn't have that for you. Why even entertain having sex with him. Is the heavly BBC crave more than your sensiblity?
Interesting enough, respect is a huge part of Dom/Sub. I have a ton of respect for my hotwife Sub. We've been pushing the limits for about a year now and she loves it.
And, it's not so much a 'BBC thing'. I've met Doms of different ethnicity do some stuff to women I won't repeat here...

One Dom I guess you can say mentored me in some *******...older white guy, had some smoking hot married women crawling around his house like dogs.

Crazy as it sounds, they kept coming back for more :devil:
 
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It's called respect. If that man doesn't have that for you. Why even entertain having sex with him. Is the heavly BBC crave more than your sensiblity?

There is a great difference between dominance and misogyny. Some guys had a lot of disappointments with women and his behavior is just a form of revenge. I like strong and self confidence men. If a man needs to find his self esteem treating a woman like garbage, these mental issues are a form of insecurity and weakness. Communication, mutual respect and trust are essential in any Dom/sub relationship. I feel safer and comfortable letting a strong man to take control, finding my own pleasure by pleasing other. Verbal and physical humiliation can be very arousing, but it is like a role playing game; a true Dom knows the right place, form and moment to do it, as has to know the boundaries of his submissive.
 
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And, it's not so much a 'BBC thing'. I've met Doms of different ethnicity do some stuff to women I won't repeat here...

I find in this forum a great tendency to establish generalizations about sex based on race (something that can be an arousing fantasy, but it should not be confused with reality). Every man is different, no matter his ethnicity. But it is true in the interracial lifestyle (namely, interracial dominance and cuckoldry) there are a lot of practices, expectations and common places that have little to do with what is common in BDSM.

According to my experience, in BDSM the communication between both parts it is essential to find the practices that are fulfilling for both sides. No matter if the Dom is the leading one, the sub who serve him has to enjoy with what is going on, otherwise the whole relationship has no sense. There are many different practices and levels of ‘roughness’ in BDSM, and the Doms usually ask their subs about their limits, expectations and fantasies since the very first moment. Here I see many guys that tacitly assume all women with enjoy with some situations (those they find exciting) and that is not a realistic approach.
 
There is a great difference between dominance and misogyny. Some guys had a lot of disappointments with women and his behavior is just a form of revenge. I like strong and self confidence men. If a man needs to find his self esteem treating a woman like garbage, these mental issues are a form of insecurity and weakness. Communication, mutual respect and trust are essential in any Dom/sub relationship. I feel safer and comfortable letting a strong man to take control, finding my own pleasure by pleasing other. Verbal and physical humiliation can be very arousing, but it is like a role playing game; a true Dom knows the right place, form and moment to do it, as has to know the boundaries of his submissive.


I agree. There's a solid line between dominance and misogyny. To me personally I couldn't get into misogyny. To some people pain is pleasure which I respect it but its not my cup of tea. To me pleasure is pleasure.

To me being dominant is being in control and knowing what you are doing to make your partner feel good. It's being in control of the positions, knowing the strokes she's likes, the angles, rhythym, the foreplay etc and using that to getting a woman to submit to you.

Surprisingly though alot of women do like to push that line.

I haven't gotten into training girls but I had some form of it when I was sleeping with this racist girl a few years ago. After a while she knew to keep her face down ass up because she knew that's what I liked and she enjoyed it too. The domination aspect of that, is like her pulling her pants down to her knees and getting in the face down ass position in anticipation for my cock to enter her. Sometimes I would make her wait and beg for it.

Alot of times I would tell her to tighten her pussy together around my dick, or when she was about to hold back her squirt I would tell her to squirt on my dick.

I would also make her hold her legs up in the missionary postion as I was about cum inside of her. To me, owning a pussy is knowing how to work it. Being in control of a submissive is getting them to being controlled by the pleasure not being in fear of pain.

I guess its a little twisted but true dominance when it comes to cuckolding is for us to "break the will" of a reserved white woman using pleasure to get her to do all the nasty things we like. It's a little fucked up but it's exhilarating, empowering and its the best feeling in the world.

I will use the relationship I had with the racist girl as an example. In the beginning we started out just kissing and feeling on each other's bodies. When we first did it, it was just a normal doggy and I cam on her butt cheek. Overtime the sex got better and better and I took more control. It went from cuming on her butt cheek to cumming in her face and in her pussy. It went from doggy to her sucking me off in my car and cumming in her mouth and fucking her in the park and over a park bench.

Because the sex was so good, her will kind of eroded away and she went from don't cum in me to being instructed to spread her legs open up so I can cum deep in her pussy.
 
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I agree. There's a solid line between dominance and misogyny. To me personally I couldn't get into misogyny. To some people pain is pleasure which I respect it but its not my cup of tea. To me pleasure is pleasure.

I know very few women who really enjoy with pain. The spanking is a shot of adrenaline and endorphins, mixed with fear, anticipation, anxiety and an overwhelming emotion of losing control. The experience can be a pleasurable and naughty game, or can be very intense; sometimes I have cried and even insulted my Dom. For me pain is just pain, not pleasure at all, but the experience is emotionally impossible to describe and incredibly exciting. After a good spanks, my sex use to be soaked. After these 'sessions' I have enjoyed the most intense orgasms I have ever had.

However, you have mentioned a good example that shows that control does not have to be exercised only through punishment. The first time my black Dom 'controlled' me was the first time we had sex. I always use protection in casual encounters, but he ignored my 'suggestions' to use a condom. I was on the pill, but I knew he frequented the company of other ladies. I tried to squeeze my legs together, but he opened them with his strong hands and he began to fuck me hard towards the climax. I couldn't help it, I couldn't even speak. When I felt his cock throbbing, I knew he was about to cum inside of me and a mixture of fear and ******* overwhelmed me. He looked me at the eyes, his hands holding down mine, and he played with my emotions until he filled me with his seed.

In some sense, that was the moment when he "broke my will", but it is not exactly that. It is more like an acknowledgment to the alpha male... Recognizing him as the leading part of the relationship, and accepting to interact with him as his submissive.
 
I know very few women who really enjoy with pain. The spanking is a shot of adrenaline and endorphins, mixed with fear, anticipation, anxiety and an overwhelming emotion of losing control. The experience can be a pleasurable and naughty game, or can be very intense; sometimes I have cried and even insulted my Dom. For me pain is just pain, not pleasure at all, but the experience is emotionally impossible to describe and incredibly exciting. After a good spanks, my sex use to be soaked. After these 'sessions' I have enjoyed the most intense orgasms I have ever had.

However, you have mentioned a good example that shows that control does not have to be exercised only through punishment. The first time my black Dom 'controlled' me was the first time we had sex. I always use protection in casual encounters, but he ignored my 'suggestions' to use a condom. I was on the pill, but I knew he frequented the company of other ladies. I tried to squeeze my legs together, but he opened them with his strong hands and he began to fuck me hard towards the climax. I couldn't help it, I couldn't even speak. When I felt his cock throbbing, I knew he was about to cum inside of me and a mixture of fear and ******* overwhelmed me. He looked me at the eyes, his hands holding down mine, and he played with my emotions until he filled me with his seed.

In some sense, that was the moment when he "broke my will", but it is not exactly that. It is more like an acknowledgment to the alpha male... Recognizing him as the leading part of the relationship, and accepting to interact with him as his submissive.

I can't speak for your lover but I can speak for myself. It's almost impossible to pull out of a white woman. I dont know what it is but you guys make us cum so hard. I came inside my doctor twice in a row. My dick didn't even go down. It stayed hard and I just continued to fuck her until I came even harder the second time.

You should try handcuffs and blindfolds with a Black guy you trust. You just need a safe word and establish boundaries. That is very exciting.
I love sucking on my partner's pussy and licking their ass when they are blindfolded and handcuffed Most women expect me to just fuck their brains out when they are like that but I love to run my tongue all over their body and lick on every part on them before I tease them with my cock by massaging it on their clit.
 
Women by nature find attractive strong, self confident and dominant men. It is a matter of instinct and natural selection. Moreover, sexual dimorphism contributes to it. Sometimes I find a bit ridiculous when a dominatrix 'controls' or 'dominates' a guy much bigger than her.

Maybe most of women don't want to live in a world full of sexual predators and macho men, but in sexual terms the criteria use to be clear. If you read fiction written by women and consumed by women this is the classic profile of the male character.

The problem with a lot of white men is that they seem to be brainwashed by feminism and political correctness and they don't dare to act as most of women want and desire. The racial difference may start very early. I have perceived explicit glances from 16-year-old black boys that made me blush.

I would add that many women that have a thing for black men expect some kind of sexual behavior from them, and with this bias it is not strange they have the impression all women are looking for rough sex. Beyond these facts, every woman has her own boundaries and may find 'rough' or not very different practices and situations.

Your comments and observations are PROFOUND. Articulate. True.
Honest assessments of social trends...as well, reflecting deep personal
Insight. Thanks.
 
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