Well first off this website is just an Interracial Porn and virtual community first and foremost. It was never intended or designed to provide a forum for people to meet-up and play/fuck as its primary design. So as for being an online Interracial social forum and for those who just want to chat this site is one of the best Ive seen on the web.
To play I would lean more towards other sites SLS and sometimes CL as they provide a forum with the intent of people meeting to play/fuck.
Now with all that being said, as has already been said above in a few other posts, REAL People will do real things and meet in real life. I've met more than several people off this site now and all were great fun encounters that I still communicate with all of them also in real-life and sometimes more than we communicate on here.
There are a few people I have talked with (one including who posted on this forum thread [not you Bamagirl]) who were/are near me, talked about meeting but balked and flaked for almost a year now. I consider and charge all people I chat with on here as guilty of being a fake person even if they have a 'Real Person' banner and are not really who they present themselves to be on here. They have a huge burden of proof to prove they are real to me by only meeting in person in which I would then reprieve their conviction.
Therefore I don't invest any emotions, thoughts, time or worries as to who is real- whatever. If they Real, they will plan to meet me in real life, otherwise they are fine to continue to socialize and fantasize about their happy little interracial dream lives on here.
But Real People will meet and make their fantasies a REALITY. Join the world of the living for all those scared and still on the sidelines and living in the clouds in their minds (the dreamworld).