I think this is a good site but most of the post here are fake (it's better then most other sites). You just have to use common sense to pick who is real and who is fake. Look at my short list below
1. They don't put a location (the location should be the state and city- some state are so big that saying CA is not good enough)
2. They say that they are very picky, they have standards that they can't even meet themselves
3. They want you to send them pics. Most of the time you already have pics in your profile. or they want a face pic. When you look at their profile, they have no pics or it is pics of only one of them (if they say that they are a couple) or a couple where the pic never show them together
4. Just because they have been verified does not mean that they are real, trust me, I learn that myself
5. They are from CA and they are sending you note about meeting and you are in NY. You then notice that they are getting responses from some of their post from people in CA, that want to meet them but they never seem to meet.
Well that is just my short list, you have to do what works for you. I hope this helps.