Trepidation goes both ways.
There men such as myself who have no real reason to be here other than my fascination with interracial relationships in a tight knit community. I do fairly well in real life
But I'm kinda thrown for how flaky women can be online, so that is my 'cause to pause' when trying to establish a meaningful connection.
I'm sure most men would LOVE to spend time entertaining a meaningful dialogue on this site. But truth be told, I'm off the belief that the DEMAND (for BBC) outweighs the SUPPLY (of BBC).
Simply put, I'm sure most of us intelligent black men with high social status, sex appeal, debonair, and charm don't need to commit
too much effort into validating online attraction.
Some of the women here make very questionable decisions with who they choose to play with. They say they want ONE thing, but seeing their photos, they clearly went in another direction lol. That's my nice way of putting it.
Me personally, I chat with a few sexy ladies on a regular basis but so far only met two in person. Time and effort play a big role in all of this, of which both are a luxury for my busy life.
But in the end, we all get what we go after! The ladies that want a handsome hung black man will go get that with no hesitation
I tend to prefer either very sexually aggressive women, or very sexually submissive women actively seeking a Dom. At least those two personality types know what they want. to paraphrase a popular rap quote
'If you say you 'bout it, then BE about it!'
