An open letter to all members - a real member / admin commentary.

[NiagFallsGuy]

great post and sentiments - a huge thanks to you and the other staff members for sharing/weighing in..my biggest peeve is the persistent "hubby" members who join and masquerade as the wife or message you suggesting that she is ready to try and wants to cuck the very willing hubby when in fact she is probably totally clueless that he is on the site using her pics or stolen web photos to get off on his own BBC ir porn masturbation fantasy. Biggest red flag for me is when you start getting propositioned in messages/chat to write them a long theatrical cybersex novel of what you want to do to their wife

Why verification is so important. IMO anyone who is a couple talking abut how bad their wife wants it should have verification images where she knows he has joined the site, etc. Absent any verification images, one should be looked at very skeptically.

Why I also think that couples should have to verify again every so often. The male can continue as a member here, as a couple, far after the female has left him, but he is still posting images of her and what all he wants to do or have done to her.

 

[Katie100]

Priceless!

I agree. New here and joined at the urging of a friend. Naively posted a pic and an avatar showing my face. Going to delete them.

 

[Easygliderpro]

I agree. New here and joined at the urging of a friend. Naively posted a pic and an avatar showing my face. Going to delete them.

I don’t know your circumstances, but if you are concerned about your family, friends and co-workers, then simply crop out your face pic, or don’t show your face, either use your body only, or no avatar to hide your identity.

Also, take your time chatting here, and don’t believe everything you read or see here...

 

[Katie100]

I don’t know your circumstances, but if you are concerned about your family, friends and co-workers, then simply crop out your face pic, or don’t show your face, either use your body only, or no avatar to hide your identity.

Also, take your time chatting here, and don’t believe everything you read or see here...

Thanks

 

[Katie100]

Thanks

I decided I haven’t revealed anything damaging . Family and friends are broad minded.

 

[NiagFallsGuy]

I decided I haven’t revealed anything damaging . Family and friends are broad minded.

Verify on here and then post only in the verified members sections. It will cut down drastically on prying eyes.

 

[BobbyLongKong10]

Verify on here and then post only in the verified members sections. It will cut down drastically on prying eyes.

Agreed! ?%

 

[BobbyLongKong10]

I don’t know your circumstances, but if you are concerned about your family, friends and co-workers, then simply crop out your face pic, or don’t show your face, either use your body only, or no avatar to hide your identity.

Also, take your time chatting here, and don’t believe everything you read or see here...

This site has more delusions of grandeur & illusions than a fake magician at a ******* party.? ??‍??‍? So I agree with you on the last statement as well as all of the above.

 

[BobbyLongKong10]

Why verification is so important. IMO anyone who is a couple talking abut how bad their wife wants it should have verification images where she knows he has joined the site, etc. Absent any verification images, one should be looked at very skeptically.

Why I also think that couples should have to verify again every so often. The male can continue as a member here, as a couple, far after the female has left him, but he is still posting images of her and what all he wants to do or have done to her.

I was just discussing this with a few people, which is why I also urge guys who come in my inbox claiming to be a couple to be verified. They expose themselves with a weak minded complex when they're not and only have pics of her as well as nothing of them. Not even together. ??‍ Almost as if they go on different sites and steal pics by downloading them and reposting it. It's down right sickening. And they've infiltrated my inbox to the point I stray away from this site. So I've made it clear to only communicate with verified couples and single females only.

Newbies who claim not to know, I'll give them a few them a week or so to get verified (everyones livelihoods are different) after that I don't really interact and cut off communication. There's no way you're on this site for years at a time, posting pics or even months and you haven't been verified at all. Absolutely no excuse. So I agree with you on all factors. ?

 

[BobbyLongKong10]

I agree. New here and joined at the urging of a friend. Naively posted a pic and an avatar showing my face. Going to delete them.

You can change that easily. Your face is still showing even with your eyes closed. If this site required facial recognition you still would be exposed. I'm just saying. You have tools to manage your means and keep P2Bz out of your pool of erotica.

 

[Virginforever]

Thanks for this thread, its great and I've enjoyed reading through it.

Probably one of the few 'advantages', (if you can call it an advantage) of being a single virgin white guy is that who in their right mind would want to fake being one...exactly. nobody would.

In my situation, You get the least amount of attention at a site like this but that's totally okay with me. The attention should be on the BBC and couples. That's why I like this place


The main thing is that I'm free to Express myself here and just roll with whatever happens after that.

Actually what happens sometimes is that some dont believe that I'm actually a virgin, but i really am. Again, who would actually want to cop to that, but I openly and willingly admit to it. I know there currently isn't now, but If there was a verifying process for single males, I would gladly submit to it in a heartbeat.

 

[Katie100]

You can change that easily. Your face is still showing even with your eyes closed. If this site required facial recognition you still would be exposed. I'm just saying. You have tools to manage your means and keep P2Bz out of your pool of erotica.

P2Bz ????????

 

[poundcake26]

There's no way you're on this site for years at a time, posting pics or even months and you haven't been verified at all. Absolutely no excuse. So I agree with you on all factors. ?

There are couples and ladies who verify after being members for years. It's not at all uncommon. Some have little to no activity for extended periods and they'll become verified out of left field. Not agreeing or disagreeing with your methods as you know what works best for you. Just saying it does happen more often than one would think.

 

[MarriedQOS]

We are verified and agree there are too many fake pics on the site. Finding a wife that is really in to QOS lifestyle like mine is diffucult and I understand that. But please quit being fake and just enjoy the sires content until someday when you may be lucky enough to have one and then you can post real content .

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

Agreed! most guys cannot control their impulses they just react instant gratification. Just focus on a picture and go crazy sexual frustration is so real they cannot help it. Lol

Haha. Yeah, "most" guys / and gals look at a cat / or a chicken and chicken out. It's funny, when we know we all are human and our genes `equal' for about 95% and we think it's a damn cool thing to *interprete* how different the other 5% are. Please, can anyone explain with a good sense of knowledge and humor - the technicalities apart - where's the big difference between a guy wanking over a fantasy and/or pic/vid with his hands and a gal doing the same on a toy or cucumber? It's not that far away, i guess.

 

[MentalHarness]

Why not have everyone verify? Perhaps a private verification system could be used for those who trust the site but don't want to go public yet. Too much work?

 

[Deleted125623]

Sorry to say people if you think being verified is going to stop or even deter the fakes etc you're very sadly mistaken. Your safety and security is in your hands and no one elses. Most people on here are fakes. But there are some real people who are honest as genuine, it just takes a little time to find them.. If you don't have a series of steps to use when meeting or being messaged by other members wanting a meet/ chat/pictures or so then you are asking for trouble. Verify, verify verify.

This problem isn't new, it won't ever go away. So seriously people, start taking steps to protect yourself. As for the verification. Some people don't want to be verified due to circumstances, conditions or a combination of the two. No system is 100% proof. That all said, it is annoying the amount of fakes, breed out all whites, and photo collectors who are active on this site. But as usual it all boils down to YOU taking steps to protect YOURSELF as no one else will do it for you.

 

[ZZZZ79]

My favorite web quote = On the internet you can be anyone you want.. too bad nobody wants to be themselves..

This is the "life philosophy" of weak and cowardly people in the mental field,which is frankly very pathetic!!

 

[MagicMikeATX]

Sorry to say people if you think being verified is going to stop or even deter the fakes etc you're very sadly mistaken. Your safety and security is in your hands and no one elses. Most people on here are fakes. But there are some real people who are honest as genuine, it just takes a little time to find them.. If you don't have a series of steps to use when meeting or being messaged by other members wanting a meet/ chat/pictures or so then you are asking for trouble. Verify, verify verify.

This problem isn't new, it won't ever go away. So seriously people, start taking steps to protect yourself. As for the verification. Some people don't want to be verified due to circumstances, conditions or a combination of the two. No system is 100% proof. That all said, it is annoying the amount of fakes, breed out all whites, and photo collectors who are active on this site. But as usual it all boils down to YOU taking steps to protect YOURSELF as no one else will do it for you.

You echoed my sentiments exactly, almost word for word!

https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/hunting-for-fakes-2-0-provide-your-facts.144643/page-24#post-2681777

 

[Wavegod1]

This is a white pussy, with her legs spread wide... how many guys on here want to fuck it?

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* I hate to be like this, but it pains me to see how stupid guys are on here to fawn over any web photo of some "white girl" or any "pussy" posted on here. (hence the stupid photo - see above if you missed it)

www.images.google.com can save you a world of trouble... check it out, do some research.
*If it seems too good to be be true, or fake, it probably is..

I know I'm "Admin" and a huge contributor and 100% real BTW.. but it makes my head hurt to see how many members comment or like any obvious FAKE photo or member profiles and thread posts.

Hint #1 - if a hot blond avatar (a white girl with 4 black dicks in her mouth) or member profile posts a face picture a white girl (with 4 black dicks in her mouth) and says she loves BBC.. she is FAKE.
I hate to bust your bubble, but 99% of hot wives that like BBC aren't posting their face pictures for the entire web / world to see. (once again check images.google.com) - But I bet some are 100% real like i.e @Harmoni California for example.

Hint #2 - see hint #1

Guys - please get a grip, and not of your penis at 2am.. catch your breath and take a dose of reality before y0u post some grammatically incorrect, incoherent, drunken, one-handed comment. (Id fuk dat white grl cunt) is not acceptable and will NOT get you laid.. even if you somehow thought it would.
Yes, there are some great swingers, hot wives, Queen of Spades, Size Queen loving wives, girlfriends and single females (we know many). but they are most likely NOT posting their face / bikini pictures on their avatars. (or any other posting for that matter)... OK maybe @LebanonBBCLover is the exception to the rule) ~we're a fan.

I love this site, and we have been in the swinger / BBC lifestyle for many, many years.. but there are more fakes than real on here.. if it needs to be said louder for those in the back row or not paying attention - THERE ARE MORE FAKES ON HERE THAN REAL.

Let's enjoy the site for what it is.. a lifestyle fantasy, free IR porn, potential (highly unlikely) hook-up, IR outlet, wet dream, wanna-be-cuckold, dumping ground for everything black and white / IR related we find exciting, and that is great..

Stop posting a wife you do not have and a dick you wish you had and a let's keep it real!
*Fuck, even 50% real would be better than what we have..

PS - Please please please check posting dates.. if the member hasn't been on in 5 years or their most recent posting is from 2012, just move on... find something more recent to post your stupid / rude comment on... that will surely get you laid.

@MacNfries ~ please chime in here.. your comments are priceless.
@FunnyBunny ~ your hard work and attention to this site is second to none.. without you, well, this site would be crap. (that's english for *******!)

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This is a white pussy, with her legs spread wide... how many guys on here want to fuck it?

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* I hate to be like this, but it pains me to see how stupid guys are on here to fawn over any web photo of some "white girl" or any "pussy" posted on here. (hence the stupid photo - see above if you missed it)

www.images.google.com can save you a world of trouble... check it out, do some research.
*If it seems too good to be be true, or fake, it probably is..

I know I'm "Admin" and a huge contributor and 100% real BTW.. but it makes my head hurt to see how many members comment or like any obvious FAKE photo or member profiles and thread posts.

Hint #1 - if a hot blond avatar (a white girl with 4 black dicks in her mouth) or member profile posts a face picture a white girl (with 4 black dicks in her mouth) and says she loves BBC.. she is FAKE.
I hate to bust your bubble, but 99% of hot wives that like BBC aren't posting their face pictures for the entire web / world to see. (once again check images.google.com) - But I bet some are 100% real like i.e @Harmoni California for example.

Hint #2 - see hint #1

Guys - please get a grip, and not of your penis at 2am.. catch your breath and take a dose of reality before y0u post some grammatically incorrect, incoherent, drunken, one-handed comment. (Id fuk dat white grl cunt) is not acceptable and will NOT get you laid.. even if you somehow thought it would.
Yes, there are some great swingers, hot wives, Queen of Spades, Size Queen loving wives, girlfriends and single females (we know many). but they are most likely NOT posting their face / bikini pictures on their avatars. (or any other posting for that matter)... OK maybe @LebanonBBCLover is the exception to the rule) ~we're a fan.

I love this site, and we have been in the swinger / BBC lifestyle for many, many years.. but there are more fakes than real on here.. if it needs to be said louder for those in the back row or not paying attention - THERE ARE MORE FAKES ON HERE THAN REAL.

Let's enjoy the site for what it is.. a lifestyle fantasy, free IR porn, potential (highly unlikely) hook-up, IR outlet, wet dream, wanna-be-cuckold, dumping ground for everything black and white / IR related we find exciting, and that is great..

Stop posting a wife you do not have and a dick you wish you had and a let's keep it real!
*Fuck, even 50% real would be better than what we have..

PS - Please please please check posting dates.. if the member hasn't been on in 5 years or their most recent posting is from 2012, just move on... find something more recent to post your stupid / rude comment on... that will surely get you laid.

@MacNfries ~ please chime in here.. your comments are priceless.
@FunnyBunny ~ your hard work and attention to this site is second to none.. without you, well, this site would be crap. (that's english for *******!)

Sound advice