Adult ******* has found out about my lifestyle

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My wife told her brother and her mom about our lifestyle choices, her mom is the town gossip Queen lol so we are kinda expecting whatever comes next and are ready to deal with the revelation
The obvious questions is why did she feel the need to tell mumsy and little bro about her sexual exploits with you.
 
I left my computer on and on this website last week. My adult ******* came over to use it and seen everything and was shocked and upset. So I've been dealing with that and haven't been on here. Trying to explain hasn't went well and has got me in a pretty down mood :(
Ur a grown woman living ur best life, she should try it sometime, make her understand you’ve been desiring this
 
First thank you all for the nice comments from my family here on B2W :lips:. Ok well her and I spent a lot of time together yesterday afternoon and had a very adult talk about my lifestyle and her *******'s. I told her that we are still very much in love with each other and nothing was going to change that. I'm not going to go into details but I pretty much said I have a high sex drive that her ******* can't satisfy and he's good with it and that I like being with black men. Of course there was a hell of a lot more in between and hours of talking. She left with an understanding that I enjoy what I do and she was fine with it :love:. The most important thing was she didn't tell anyone else, which I was very happy with. Were good
I'm glad to hear this all worked out after my jaw fell when I read your OP. The support on this thread, btw, has been amazing. It's nice to see how supportive the comments were in the main. If only the rest of the world out there was this open minded and supportive. Oh well. Screw them.
 
I left my computer on and on this website last week. My adult ******* came over to use it and seen everything and was shocked and upset. So I've been dealing with that and haven't been on here. Trying to explain hasn't went well and has got me in a pretty down mood :(
My 2 adult children know what my husband and I do. It's obvious their younger sibling is not from their dad and they saw me preg. So, I had to approach them with different methods so I hoped they'd understand.

My oldest ******* likes the "whole story" and then she can process it. She does judge a bit and gives a smart-ass remark at first. Then, she can decide if she can accept it. She's already said she is not going to have an open marriage when she is married. I can tell she's ok with everything by one of her comments.

(From my ******* who has no ******* nor is married)
"Mom, I don't want any of my ******* to be older than any of yours. Are you done?"

My ******* who is the next oldest is more the opposite. I used half-truths and vagueness to convey my point. I remember saying my husband (his dad) could not get me preg anymore. Then, saying there are other places and clinics where I can choose the ******* (sperm bank or a yummy blk friend named Mark) In either case, I get to choose. He seems to respond way better to the "fill in the blanks" approach. It's not the best from a parenting standpoint, but that works for him.

My point to all this???? You need to find out the best way to approach this with your *******. She may accept it more if you act all excited about all the fun you have. Or, she may be cool if you just tell her "It's just something we do. Let's move on."

I wish I had the perfect answer for you. ******* are a wonderful blessing, but complicated and difficult to figure out sometimes.
 
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