Just want to hear how some of the lovely lady on this site was introduced to being a hotwife and what was your first impression of it?
She looks like she has a long night ahead of herDo you think she looks excited?
I didn't know what a hotwife was either until my man brought it up. I'd also never done bbc before or really had a need for it. After the first time though I can honestly say I won't be giving up this lifestyle, ever.Hubs brought it up after we had already been swinging for a few months. I was not familiar with the term "hotwife", but after he explained what it was, I said sure!
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What error did you experience in your journey?My now ex husband. He got REALLY into it and let me know it was what he wanted. We went slowly but with trial and error I’m happy now.
It's evident that you will be a lifetime memberI didn't know what a hotwife was either until my man brought it up. I'd also never done bbc before or really had a need for it. After the first time though I can honestly say I won't be giving up this lifestyle, ever.
Great storyMy wife was a good catholic girl. Our sex was hot and dirty. I surprised her w a swingers club and we met a great couple. She only played w the female, but it was hot. We did that several more times until I looked over once and she was sucking the other husband (average white guy). She eventually was willing to be fucked and enjoy that as well.
During our sex I could tell she wanted more. She wanted all her sensitive spots touched and filled. I invited over our first single male (average Hispanic guy). She loved it, but it was clear she had become a size queen after swinging w a bunch of average, middle class white husbands.
We found a BBC stud online and met for drinks. 6’2, former athlete and knew how to talk to her and make her feel desired. She wasn’t going to wait for a second date and we went back to his place. We sat on his couch. He walked away and when he returned he stood in front of her. It was clear to both of them what was about to happen and she leaned forward and released his big cock. She didn’t hesitate and hasn’t looked back since.
Back to the question, it took time and lots of communication between her and I that reassured her that this was not only ok, but something I wanted for her and us. Her pleasure, no matter how it was obtained was good for our relationship. Her being a slut for big cocks was a positive and something she should desire and enjoy without guilt.
hot stuff.Short story: we had talked about and enjoyed a couple of mfms right after we married, and my wife had a couple of guys she wanted to solo with. She was concerned that I wouldn't like the idea, but I loved the idea and so we determined she had a permanent "hall pass." We had never used the terms "hotwife" and "cuckold." For us, it was just about what turned us on and led to more good sex - our marital sex was supercharged at times after she got laid so there was no question of "buy-in" for either of us. This was in the 1990s and I can't remember: were the Penthouse Forum and other "reality" stories even using those terms back then? In any event, as time went by it all led to me not being in her very often, by her request.