When is your BBC Bull not dominant enough?

[MagicMikeATX]

And that's the dilemma that we face in this lifestyle (especially with LTR) @Jdingo619 @MagicMikeATX & I gotta add @CheetoJones !
We are High Octane (Ball don't lie!) *using the metaphor "ball" referring to our media*
Couples have a hard time matching that energy for ltr with us ,(Especially if you have your resources together) no matter if we stick to what was agreed too because if it's a couple you are dealing with means your dealing with two different feelings which can change as quick as the wind blows no matter how well you treat them.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

I want my Bullfriends to use my collar n leash to demonstrate I am only f... meat. . USE IT

Gotta have the RIGHT GUY to do that.

Every 'Big dicc guy' doesn't mean he a dominant BULL

 

[Thatguyin323]

This white couples are a trip. Some think every black man is rough ,etc. SMH. Stereotypical *******.

I was thinking the same thing

 

[abstractart100]

You can't get something out of a person that they don't have!

I have watched hotwife videos where the wife is sucking cock and her hair is in the way and the Bull gently grabs some of the hair and moves it but the part that was in the way is still in the way! It's makes you want to yell "grab and hold all of her hair like a dirty beast and use it to control her mouth and fuck her face" but you can't push the guys that don't have it in them!

Yes you want some guys in these videos how they spank or stroke that pussy and you swear that the guy was asleep or kind of boring but if it seems like the woman was enjoying it then it is what it is!

When someone says they like it rough or more dominant it's better for them to have to ask you to ease up the give them more harsher treatment.

Great advice Sounds like you have considerable experience with rough play

 

[King Blue]

Seems like we are having that problem now. Mrs. V's BBC bull lives in another town and we visit occasionally with him and play in a hotel. However, he is really a gentleman and very respectful to Mrs. V. At our last meeting for dinner, he sat next to her and stroke her bare thighs as she was was wearing a skimpy pair of shorts. He commended on how soft her skin was. But then his hand was not constantly on her thighs, and he did not attempt to move his hand up higher towards her pussy. Also, I had to encourage him to play with her titties. We were sitting at a table completely hidden from view from the rest of the restaurant. So there was almost no possibility of being caught.

Mrs. V likes to be dominated in bed. ****** fed cock, and throat fuck until she chokes on it. She also likes her hands held behind her back while get fucked hard doggy style. As well, she likes some name calling and dirty talking during sex. Being told she is an Asian slut for black cock, and being made to beg for it is something she enjoys. The bull has never done any of this before. After all, he owns her pussy and can do whatever he wants to it. We are not talking about a rough, disrespectful, thug. But its a little frustrating, when its not really Bull like behaviour.

Not sure whether we should have a talk with him about it. Or even if he can up the dominant part a couple of notches. Might be something he is not interested in doing.

Not every BULL is a DOMINATE or ALPHA.. Some men are beta types which is what you seem to have found. A true owned submissive bare her owners mark in my world and treated accordingly. Not sure if a conversation would spark his interest since it might not be in him.. Possibly time to find a true DOM who knows how to make her cum on command.

 

[Dellvan]

I was thinking the same thing

So as they start talking like that , I'm gone. I used to put up with bullshit. Not anymore.

 

[MasterJackFL]

Seems like we are having that problem now. Mrs. V's BBC bull lives in another town and we visit occasionally with him and play in a hotel. However, he is really a gentleman and very respectful to Mrs. V. At our last meeting for dinner, he sat next to her and stroke her bare thighs as she was was wearing a skimpy pair of shorts. He commended on how soft her skin was. But then his hand was not constantly on her thighs, and he did not attempt to move his hand up higher towards her pussy. Also, I had to encourage him to play with her titties. We were sitting at a table completely hidden from view from the rest of the restaurant. So there was almost no possibility of being caught.

Mrs. V likes to be dominated in bed. ****** fed cock, and throat fuck until she chokes on it. She also likes her hands held behind her back while get fucked hard doggy style. As well, she likes some name calling and dirty talking during sex. Being told she is an Asian slut for black cock, and being made to beg for it is something she enjoys. The bull has never done any of this before. After all, he owns her pussy and can do whatever he wants to it. We are not talking about a rough, disrespectful, thug. But its a little frustrating, when its not really Bull like behaviour.

Not sure whether we should have a talk with him about it. Or even if he can up the dominant part a couple of notches. Might be something he is not interested

He is not the right dominant for you.

 

[DominantBull33]

Rough sex is a skill a dominant alpha BBC Bull would have and that's not every Bull. If you wanted all of those things then that what you advertise for in your add. "Looking for a dominant BBC Bull who is into rough sex"!

Now if you didn't require that or ask for it before you met him then requiring it after the fact is would not be a nice thing to do. If you did require it from the beginning but you are not getting that outcome then yes you definitely need to talk to him. If you didn't require it at the beginning then the only way to salvage what you clearly really want is to teach the Bull to do exactly what it is you want. It's not the sexiest thing but it's better than firing the Bull and having no Bull.

If you decide that you don't want your wife to train the Bull then find a replacement with the right skills and faze out the old Bull.

100%
Not everyone is dominant.

If a Bull isnt into *******, rough fucking or demanding little things like hotwifes outfit or eye contact during Bj or making her call you Names u want..you cant ******* it