So join a dating site and look for a partner in life. This site promotes these and many other terms directed at us all. Terms like BBC and Bull are nowhere near as disrespectful as Slut and Whore etc. What's with the whole world being offended so damn easily these days. Internet and social media account for most of it and the ironic thing about that is we can just choose to switch off.
Yes you're a man, you're a Black man with a big black cock. Im a white man, with a small white penis. Be happy with your labels, Id be thankful if I were you. Small problems to have. Try not to take offense; not personal towards you. This is a perfect example of a w man wanting control. Even with regular BBD in his wife he has to try to control some aspect. Even if it means calling a man a beast.