Goodlistener79
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I kept the wife. The other one is still in my life but she relocated to the southern states with her husband. We still talk and the feelings are still there but not sure it could ever be the same.
Would you 🤔 have you 😉 lets have a friendly convo 😘
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I had the opposite. My one and only MARRIED couple years back. The wife fell in love with me. We all three used to do everything together. I cared for her but not quite love. She got pregnant, so I skipped. Worst decision I ever made. Now I want more k I d s but that's not the topic here. Yeah I was close once but no cigar. She was a really cool gul to say the least.
Your single?I think I may have learned something about men today.. I feel inspired, no not really, I'm one of those crazy females who get attached, then want to set your house on fire. It's problematic, and keeps me single
I learned the same. Keep those two worlds apart otherwise you're setting yourself up for failure because at some point one of you will get tired or bored with the lifestyle and want a Peaceful life routine instead of Kinky sexual ******* all the time. Once that happens cheating starts because those " kink desires " seem to always be more important than " love " ESPECIALLY if it's the Guy that wants to stop but not the Gf or wife so it's best to keep those two worlds apartCan’t see myself falling in love for any women on here (not to say it can’t happend) just that I’ve learned to keep kink lifestyle separate from true love and connection and I don’t see it here that’s just me tho
Huh?
As a dollar billYour single?
I'm in Burlington NC. How about you. Single here too....in search of similar interestsAs a dollar bill
My lady and I play in the lifestyle together or solo, but only with other women so I may be the anomaly here. As for me catching feelings, nah, I know how to compartmentalize and stay focused. Now I've had others catch feelings, and as soon as they do, I nip it and call it off. I'd never put what I have at risk. The freedom and PEACE I have can't be replaced.
ChristyandJake
Couple
I'm doing my best to weed through my alerts and DMs currently and to be honest if this was a paid app I'd be hitting some lotto money right now. However! They don't pay out like that. So I'm going with a little self help. I don't know what you're going through at the moment, but it's no one's fault. Don't come on any of my threads proclaiming black men in a derogatory manner. I've had nothing far from gentlemen from them. Don't ruin what this site was meant for. If you continue I will have no choice but to ask the admin to remove you.
Don't want a cuck.. but please carry onI'm in Burlington NC. How about you. Single here too....in search of similar interests
That sounds like some really good advice, especially for others looking to be in the lifestyle.
Yeah I struck gold finding my black queen. Now we go out conquering lol.
Very envious
I know of 2 others like that on this site. I pray continued love and respect 
ChristyandJake
Couple
Than excuse yourself off the site, and find yourself a hate group
ChristyandJake
Couple
We can all see this is not to be true. So unless you'd like me let the admin know and get you perm banned then be cool. No one likes an asshole. Trust me I know
Sounds like buddy got cheated on or his lady left him for BBC coming on a interracial BDSM site to air out his grievances
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