No one is able to have sex with another person (or even several at the same time) without excitement, so that the sex is enjoyable for that person. This is simply a biological / psychological fact. Depending on the person, sex is a physical and/or emotional need, and excitement is an essential basis for this.
It may happen that after a while a certain sexual situation (example: having sex in the missionary position in the bedroom at night) and/or person becomes a little or a lot, but definitely boring. If a person still wants to live a sexual life, but no longer finds much pleasure in his usual sexual life, he starts to look for alternatives, to start looking for new sources of excitement.
I consider it important to point out that spouses/partners with a civilized worldview who respect each other start the search together and even ask for the help of a sexual psychologist. I would like to note that some of the sexual psychologists used to recommend the swinger club lifestyle while observing the principle of gradualness, which can be used to introduce exciting dynamics into a flat relationship, which can significantly reduce the number of divorces!!
You can get bored of even the most delicious food if you eat it many times and with the same seasoning and serving!
IR sex , which "gives a new flavor" to sexual life, comes into the picture in such a way that, in addition to other very exciting options (older woman sex, fat woman sex, slave sex, bdsm, bisexuality, threesome sex, group sex, sex in front of each other... etc.) is the most spectacular due to the even radically different anthropological features and can be perfectly combined with the modes written in parentheses!!
Think about the even radically different skin eye and hair pigmentation! Everyone should think about the different heights, limb lengths, and widths! You can also think of the nose, mouth, forehead, cheekbones and jaw that make up the face. There are also lovers of different hair and body hair structures. You can make quite a few combinations of these, which have a particularly good effect on the psyche, which releases the sexual energies of ladies and gentlemen! It is amazingly spectacular, which has a shocking effect for many people in a positive sense, and it would be very easy to become addicted, since it is also a kind of "dr.g"!
From time to time, out of curiosity, I get used to reading the content of websites reflecting the opinions of black and Asian ladies who wish for the possibility of IR relationships.
Similar to white ladies, some of the black and Asian girls/women quite frankly describe that, in addition to the appropriate personality traits (judged based on the ladies' personal values), it is also important that the future partner belongs to a different phenotype (subspecies). a particularly important aspect, because these ladies can only imagine their own sexual life on the basis of IR!
It is not uncommon to experience a negative experience of a sexual act without complete satisfaction, which is permanently connected in the women's subconscious to men representing their own phenotype (other women in the case of lesbian/bisexual women), and because of this, there is a psychological obstacle to further sexual relations. It is essentially a subspecies based frigidity. In gentlemen's evening, subspecies-based psychological impotence. Only change can help this kind of frigidity/impotence!!
Another group of ladies claims that it perfectly matter what subspecies the gentleman/lady is, sex is equally exciting in any case.
Skepticism is already emerging here, and not unfounded!
There are certainly ladies for whom all external anthropological traits are attractive, and for this reason they really only pay attention to personality traits during the process of getting to know each other, the end of which will be sex.
Others don't really have the courage to admit to themselves and/or others that the possibility of IR sex arouses stronger desires in them than "traditional" erotica. These ladies do not want to offend anyone by fetishizing the other's body shape, pigmentation, hair structure, and/or they fear that they will be labeled as racist because of this.
These ladies (and gentlemen) feel a strong desire for erotic / romantic IR relationships and are most likely to visit IR sex sites and watch IR sex videos!