Best age your meaning 18 to 25. That might be true but it's more devastating to black men who are only used for sexual pleasure. I don't know how devastated you could be when you get a hot white girl to be with you long term, be seen in public with, married to, etc compared to no one knows about my love for BBC, you only get that call when they want some BBC.
That's devastating. Yes their are some who could care less who knowns how their love for BBC but at that age the influence but family and friends matter so much. When they get to college that's different.