I think unfortunately this lifestyle is still seen as extremely niche and generally not "normal" in general society. Not really an opinion just a fact.
I've been in the lifestyle for years with ex's in my earlier 20's not my first rodeo.
I'm glad you've had that experience with younger women though, but my perspective is a bit more complex than what you're expressing.
We're married, have *******, successful careers, this site is often plagued by deluded posts about "worshipping" "breeding" all extremes that sound great, but are not that common even for those in the traditional lifestyle. Being in my earlier 30's I feel a lot better about starting this journey with my wife with a much more solid foundation for our life, marriage, and so on.
My wife is included in plenty of the conversations and discussions I have about this. It is a team effort, but I appreciate all your incorrect assumptions.
Have a great day!