badalpha
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Dear All, I wish to say hello since it's my first post here and burden you with a questions which has been bothering me for a while.
We're happily married couple in early 40s with couple of grade school *******, nanny etc, both educated past doctorate degrees and with busy careers in one of the biggest cities in the US. I am reasonably handsome, tall and fit guy with more muscle than fat and she a petite brunette vixen who didn't change much after ******* in terms of her appearance or style (elegant, dictated by her job) but her sex drive is nothing compared to before. We used to bang like rabbits for 10 years together but with ******* and career development this became difficult. I supposed that her confidence in her body suffered too since she looked like a model (super flat tummy and perky tits etc) until few years ago. She still is a feisty whore in the bedroom who likes using dirty words and be dominated BTW. I love her body, smell and skin and I dont imagine fucking another woman at this point.
Nevertheless that is not really the main issue or question I want to ask, merely a background. Here is the Q:
So.. She has always been extremely possessive and jealous about me, to the point of massive fights about her perceptions about someone I had contact with at work (and ZERO interest of intention of having affair for number of reasons beyond my love for my wife) which has settled down a bit but never went away and with her not being in a mindset to keep up our sex life, it became more and more frustrating.
Frustrating to the point when I considered giving her a hall pass, suggest having affair or just casual sex with someone else to diffuse that bomb of anxiety and jealously which seems to be always present.. Not sure what kind of logical fallacy I am looking at here and probably I am wrong but at this point I would rather her to be a flirtatious, exhibitionist slut with Tinder account I am aware of rather than anxious and jealous loyal wife. On the side note she does have history of affair during her prior long term relationship long time ago.
Obviously I do anticipate that she would suspect long term con on my part, that I want FMF etc but i was wondering if you gals and guys have any experience with situation like this.
Is essence: will a jealous wife make a good hotwife? If so, how do I start considering her personality?
Thanks for you patience and looking forward to suggestions.
Cheers.
We're happily married couple in early 40s with couple of grade school *******, nanny etc, both educated past doctorate degrees and with busy careers in one of the biggest cities in the US. I am reasonably handsome, tall and fit guy with more muscle than fat and she a petite brunette vixen who didn't change much after ******* in terms of her appearance or style (elegant, dictated by her job) but her sex drive is nothing compared to before. We used to bang like rabbits for 10 years together but with ******* and career development this became difficult. I supposed that her confidence in her body suffered too since she looked like a model (super flat tummy and perky tits etc) until few years ago. She still is a feisty whore in the bedroom who likes using dirty words and be dominated BTW. I love her body, smell and skin and I dont imagine fucking another woman at this point.
Nevertheless that is not really the main issue or question I want to ask, merely a background. Here is the Q:
So.. She has always been extremely possessive and jealous about me, to the point of massive fights about her perceptions about someone I had contact with at work (and ZERO interest of intention of having affair for number of reasons beyond my love for my wife) which has settled down a bit but never went away and with her not being in a mindset to keep up our sex life, it became more and more frustrating.
Frustrating to the point when I considered giving her a hall pass, suggest having affair or just casual sex with someone else to diffuse that bomb of anxiety and jealously which seems to be always present.. Not sure what kind of logical fallacy I am looking at here and probably I am wrong but at this point I would rather her to be a flirtatious, exhibitionist slut with Tinder account I am aware of rather than anxious and jealous loyal wife. On the side note she does have history of affair during her prior long term relationship long time ago.
Obviously I do anticipate that she would suspect long term con on my part, that I want FMF etc but i was wondering if you gals and guys have any experience with situation like this.
Is essence: will a jealous wife make a good hotwife? If so, how do I start considering her personality?
Thanks for you patience and looking forward to suggestions.
Cheers.
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