Never a race with me sweetheart....once you let my cockhead it....it is long and slow...then deep...so your enjoy your experience and beggar for MORE.It depends. I’m new to anal (last 2 years) and new to BBC (7 months). My first BBC insisted on anal. I refused at first but felt bad after the amazing oral I received from him (both vaginally and anal oral). In the end I let him have it but it was sooo painful. For two reasons I’m sure; 1, hubby is smaller than Derek (bbc) and 2, once he got me belly down on the mattress he kind of lost all control and was racing for the finish line