I didn't know there is only 1 acceptable version of the "real" cuckold lifestyle. I thought people could enjoy whatever lifestyle makes them happy. I wasn't aware that it had to be what you approve of. If you prefer a certain form of cuckolding with your wife, then go ahead and enjoy it, but do not expect everybody to be like you. By the way, are you some kind of an expert that you can lecture to us about what a "real" cuckold lifestyle is supposed to be? Are you even in such a relationship? Please spare us your "wisdom." Thank you.