Wife has lost so much libido. Any ideas?

[Blkdreams88]

So my wife and I had a greater and super active sex life in the past. After ******* that all kind of slowed down. I have talked to her and it seems that her being tired or fear of the ******* being awake is the usual reason why we aren't doing it as much. We are pretty much once a week and sometimes every other week. Is this normal or is there any way I can ignite a spark? I figured if we let a well endowed black man or 2 get a hold of her it might help but I'm not so sure. Before anyone suggests otherwise, I do make her cum and sometimes more than once or twice. She clearly enjoys it but the drive to initiate or accept it is much weaker these days. We are in our 30s by the way.

 

[Bigfunfun]

So my wife and I had a greater and super active sex life in the past. After ******* that all kind of slowed down. I have talked to her and it seems that her being tired or fear of the ******* being awake is the usual reason why we aren't doing it as much. We are pretty much once a week and sometimes every other week. Is this normal or is there any way I can ignite a spark? I figured if we let a well endowed black man or 2 get a hold of her it might help but I'm not so sure. Before anyone suggests otherwise, I do make her cum and sometimes more than once or twice. She clearly enjoys it but the drive to initiate or accept it is much weaker these days. We are in our 30s by the way.

The answer is to somehow convince her that black men will fix her libido problem fast because they can fix it and they will if they get a shot at your wife.

 

[larry winn]

I'm in the same boat .Wife cum's and more than once quite often but sex is hit or mis . like once a month if lucky . Have been together twice in this past week after explaining to her I only want for her enjoyment and would like to find a BBC for her sexually . I do think she is on the verge of the thought of it . I asked her to fantasize to herself and think she did . In the past watched a lot of interriacial movies and she seemed to thoroughly enjoy . My biggest problem is our ages , 60 , and 69 .

 

[Blkdreams88]

I'm in the same boat .Wife cum's and more than once quite often but sex is hit or mis . like once a month if lucky . Have been together twice in this past week after explaining to her I only want for her enjoyment and would like to find a BBC for her sexually . I do think she is on the verge of the thought of it . I asked her to fantasize to herself and think she did . In the past watched a lot of interriacial movies and she seemed to thoroughly enjoy . My biggest problem is our ages , 60 , and 69 .

Thanks for sharing. My wife seems to enjoy the idea of taking bbc but I think it's the arranging and planning and the availability of men in our area that creates the hesitance. On my opinion, something new and exciting like bbc could open up pandoras box for her. We talk about it during sex most of the time. I asked her what she would do if I brought a guy in with a bbc and he whipped it out for her and she said "suck it." If that was true or not I don't know but I'm tempted to try.

 

[larry winn]

I did tell her as often as she when she want's him . Also while having sex I talk of fantasies of BBC and her and she goes ballistic while our sex then after she say's she doesn't care to hear it , I'm thinking WTF just a miniute ago you were going crazy while I was telling diferent things that were being done to her . I do beleave she want's to go there but doesen't want me to know , weather she thinl's I would think badly of her or what . I do need help and guidence in this not just stories but real HELP , thank's .

 

[Samiistar]

Need to get some jns vaginal cream and rub a pea size amount around her opening. Will look like sour cream dip her pussy will be so wet and foaming at the lips wanting some dick. Fuck her so u grind against her clit. If she don’t want that 2-3 times a week you got problems else where.

 

[Naughtygators]

So my wife and I had a greater and super active sex life in the past. After ******* that all kind of slowed down. I have talked to her and it seems that her being tired or fear of the ******* being awake is the usual reason why we aren't doing it as much. We are pretty much once a week and sometimes every other week. Is this normal or is there any way I can ignite a spark? I figured if we let a well endowed black man or 2 get a hold of her it might help but I'm not so sure. Before anyone suggests otherwise, I do make her cum and sometimes more than once or twice. She clearly enjoys it but the drive to initiate or accept it is much weaker these days. We are in our 30s by the way.

Curious to know how long you’ve been together? The 7yr itch (or however many years) is a real thing. The wife and I are swingers and that helped a lot. But now at 47, her libido has changed. Sex between us is monthly and her desire for even outside cock has been limited. Medical issues, early menopause and body image issues are the primary reason.
Her most likely reason is just finding a new reason to be excited about sex again. Bedroom talk and fantasies are fun and a start, but you need more. Sex clubs if some type are a safe start. Finding a night when they allow single males is great. Even better if you find one in a black area. Sexually charged atmospheres are a big help. Whisper in her ear while watching others. Let her dance w others. If you’re willing to travel, there are plenty of clubs around, swinger sites w lots of verified and certified single males, and meetings like splash mocha.
As with anything, talk a great deal about it and go at a safe pace for both of you. Good luck.

 

[Bob4u]

Need to get some jns vaginal cream and rub a pea size amount around her opening. Will look like sour cream dip her pussy will be so wet and foaming at the lips wanting some dick. Fuck her so u grind against her clit. If she don’t want that 2-3 times a week you got problems else where.