Most white women in their late teens and twenties have an array of Black men to choose from in their schools, universities, and jobs. Most mature, older white women never had (or took) the opportunity to crossover and embrace the black experience, as it was too "taboo" for them even 30 years ago. Now we see it everyday in commercials, at restaurants, movies, or while shopping. It's there in front of them for the taking. It's not quite the same for the more mature woman who may be married, and may feel the opportunities available to those in their late teens and 20's, aren't readily available to them. Some visit sites like this one to find that opportunity (or, for most, live the fantasy in their minds, if only for an hour or so). It's all good!