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Why most ladies not interested to watch porn
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I think I understand what your TRYING to say. And fucking a man she isn’t interested in is NOT the same as getting a friend who has never had a banana to try one. No. Stop this madness. It’s infuriating.I will explain in simple example , If you have friend never try to eat a banana from his born never tested, and always he said I don’t like banana, and you continue from time to time encouraging him to just try the taste , finally he taste the banana and found the banana is delicious.
You don’t ******* him to do any thing just encouraging and he has the final decision.
The decision is already made. I really don’t understand why folks can’t respect when someone says no. It’s like some sort of mental handicap. “Just try it” Why because YOU like? I can’t think of a more self centered misguided way of thinking. It shows how much you don’t know the person you’re doing this to.I will explain in simple example , If you have friend never try to eat a banana from his born never tested, and always he said I don’t like banana, and you continue from time to time encouraging him to just try the taste , finally he taste the banana and found the banana is delicious.
You don’t ******* him to do any thing just encouraging and he has the final decision.
Thus my question if hed do a man- like how he side stepped that?The decision is already made. I really don’t understand why folks can’t respect when someone says no. It’s like some sort of mental handicap. “Just try it” Why because YOU like? I can’t think of a more self centered misguided way of thinking. It shows how much you don’t know the person you’re doing this to.
I saw that. Very annoying. It smacks of hubris and points to / hints toward a bit of narcissism in folks who think this way. Literally can’t processes the hypocrisy they are committing in real time, so they ignore it, behave like it’s not there even when pointed out, as a coping mechanism.
First of all, sex is all about communication, trust, respect. In partnerships, you have to be somewhat flexible and accommodating in life, and the same goes for sex. You like certain things, she likes certain things. There needs to be overlap for compatibility but males push more. I am hoping you are good and willing to indulge her fetishes/desires equally.
Many women enjoy porn, at least physically but less do mentally. There can be aspects of shame, certain religions and fear, these are aspects of socialization and gender roles. Porn is incredibly male focused, at least normal hetero porn is. It shows a dick, some odd looking male (if they are shown at all), and a beautiful very young female, often the sex is super agressive, positions are not comfortable for females, etc. Too many guys hammering away at awful angles, no concern for female pleasure because she looks …. faking it. Most performers are performing, they are paid so they are not enjoying it. It can be a lot of positive or negative things, depends on perspective but it is highly oriented towards males and male enjoyment. You might be watching porn to get off, she might be nervous, think post-nut clarity.
I am generalizing here but clearly porn sex is not what most people do, sort of a self-centered approach to male pleasure. If that is what she has only seen, then sure, she will not like porn. There are alternatives, there is porn for and made by women. It is more difficult to find. There is also porn celebrating males but that is more likely gay or interracial because the males is not just a dick, usually they are more than that. There is porn with more realistic body types, typically it is more amateur. If presented carefully and respectfully while thinking of her needs not yours, then you could find something that she would like to watch on most sites (pornhub, youporn, etc), let her watch it alone or while you give her oral sex or something. Blacked is probably not a good place to start, super hollywood, but DFW Knight could be. Or whatever fits. There are also paid sites to consider to get better quality and women who enjoy performing.
But remember that you do not enjoy all porn, you probably like interracial but just a certain type of that even. Mostly large black men on white women. You figured that out over how long? How much time viewing? Well, she has not started so she needs to find what makes her wet. Mentally as well as physically. Sound off though, it will throw her off.
But as people age and spend less time working out with busy lives, there is less porn that represents them
and this is so much more pervasive for females so it can be difficult to find things for her. Porn loves to show unattractive guys with ‘beautiful‘ females. If she does not look like that, it could be excluding her and make her feel less worthy. Lots of generalizations here. but your perspective is quite into a kink, probably interracial, but she might be visually turned on by much less graphic stuff.
Also, she might not be into visual, maybe not yet.
There is literature on Literotica, lots of kinks. She could read it
it is a journey together. Enjoy it
Many women enjoy porn, at least physically but less do mentally. There can be aspects of shame, certain religions and fear, these are aspects of socialization and gender roles. Porn is incredibly male focused, at least normal hetero porn is. It shows a dick, some odd looking male (if they are shown at all), and a beautiful very young female, often the sex is super agressive, positions are not comfortable for females, etc. Too many guys hammering away at awful angles, no concern for female pleasure because she looks …. faking it. Most performers are performing, they are paid so they are not enjoying it. It can be a lot of positive or negative things, depends on perspective but it is highly oriented towards males and male enjoyment. You might be watching porn to get off, she might be nervous, think post-nut clarity.
I am generalizing here but clearly porn sex is not what most people do, sort of a self-centered approach to male pleasure. If that is what she has only seen, then sure, she will not like porn. There are alternatives, there is porn for and made by women. It is more difficult to find. There is also porn celebrating males but that is more likely gay or interracial because the males is not just a dick, usually they are more than that. There is porn with more realistic body types, typically it is more amateur. If presented carefully and respectfully while thinking of her needs not yours, then you could find something that she would like to watch on most sites (pornhub, youporn, etc), let her watch it alone or while you give her oral sex or something. Blacked is probably not a good place to start, super hollywood, but DFW Knight could be. Or whatever fits. There are also paid sites to consider to get better quality and women who enjoy performing.
But remember that you do not enjoy all porn, you probably like interracial but just a certain type of that even. Mostly large black men on white women. You figured that out over how long? How much time viewing? Well, she has not started so she needs to find what makes her wet. Mentally as well as physically. Sound off though, it will throw her off.
But as people age and spend less time working out with busy lives, there is less porn that represents them
and this is so much more pervasive for females so it can be difficult to find things for her. Porn loves to show unattractive guys with ‘beautiful‘ females. If she does not look like that, it could be excluding her and make her feel less worthy. Lots of generalizations here. but your perspective is quite into a kink, probably interracial, but she might be visually turned on by much less graphic stuff.
Also, she might not be into visual, maybe not yet.
There is literature on Literotica, lots of kinks. She could read it
it is a journey together. Enjoy it
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Thanks a lot for you comments very helpful.
But I can’t imagine, how woman can’t be interesting to watch for example ( blowjob for erotic big cock ).
Thanks a lot for you comments very helpful.
But I can’t imagine, how woman can’t be interesting to watch for example ( blowjob for erotic big cock ).
You have to read all what he wrote! Women usually don’t like the graphic stuff more reading about it and have their own fantasies in their mind. And come on, do you really think pictures or vids with blowjobs turns on women, it doesn’t do anything for them.
ApinkKiki
Female
buy her reading porn
Why I personally don't like porn :
- They always do the same thing, in the same order like they're robots : first they go for the bj and the cuni like it's always mandatory, then they go to the penetration and anal, switching position every 30 secs and the he finishes on fer face.
- They take unatural position because they need to for the camera
- There's no sexual tension or chemistry between the "actors" because they only do it to get paid
- They try to add a "scenario" but well, do I need to explain this ?
Overall porn is gross, unaesthetic and mechanical
- They always do the same thing, in the same order like they're robots : first they go for the bj and the cuni like it's always mandatory, then they go to the penetration and anal, switching position every 30 secs and the he finishes on fer face.
- They take unatural position because they need to for the camera
- There's no sexual tension or chemistry between the "actors" because they only do it to get paid
- They try to add a "scenario" but well, do I need to explain this ?
Overall porn is gross, unaesthetic and mechanical
Thanks for you comment,
If you allow me , as woman which is the media that makes you horny ? Romantic kissing videos ?
I wasn't particularly interested in porn early in our marriage (still not a fan of pro videos). My husband bought a book volume of penthouse letters and we took turns reading them to each other. Him reading the "letters" written from the male narrative and I read the ones from the female narrative. It spurred a lot of sex as well as conversations, 2 years later we started swinging.
Watching porn had nothing to do with getting into the life style.
Watching porn had nothing to do with getting into the life style.
I could like erotic stuff, like pictures.
As long as there is some sexual tension and there is some aesthetic
Yes, Penthouse letters was excellent and many actually appeared to be written by women. Lots of women enjoyed reading it too. Plus, much of it seemed to be real events rather than fictional stories. Later I think the professional writers got involved and it sadly declined in quality. Literotica is good but many authors are clearly men posing as women, much like on here and that fakery along with many unrealistic scenarios and sex myths that can be annoying at best. Porn movies or clips are mostly a formula and it is almost all geared to the male audience, so it is not going to work for most women. All too often it is just a cock doing things to a a woman who is clearly faking and not enjoying it. Too much about pleasing the male, oral sex to women which is stupid, fingering which looks painful, and things like anal/BJs which are almost exclusively for the male. So it becomes difficult to find channels that women will actually like and want to watch.
I love watch porn.. alone or also with my partner . It’s hot 
Touche. As a man I've said this in response to all these convince my wife threads.
Your response is one of selfishness or subjective standpoint because it falls into what YOU WANT.
herlittleguy
Male
You need to communicate and have honest conversations.
When a husband wants his wife to engage in the cuckold fetish purely for his own sexual gratification and not hers, it typically does not end well. Just because you got into the interracial cuckold porn and it excited you does not mean she is going to get into it. You have to be honest and have some candid conversations. Most women do not understand why you would want another man to have sex with her. If there was never any prior discussion or agreement regarding roles and boundaries into the lifestyle, it's destined to fail. Without honest communication about the intimacy part of your relationship it's bound to break down. Now granted, if a husband constantly pushes his wife to do it and just doesn't give up no matter how many times he fails. She could have a weak moment and give in so you won't harass her anymore. So I have to admit a persistent husband occasionally will wear her down and she goes along with it to please him.
Unfortunately when there is no discussion or communication about each other's role in the cuckold relationship it spells disaster. She discovers she harbors resentment towards her husband because he still wants her to respond to him as her man even though she had never been so satisfied as she was with that first experience she just had with a passionate well endowed man. Plus he had tremendous stamina that led to multiple orgasams that she never experienced before.
When the husband is not ready or willing to give up his role as the dominant male and accept his place as the cuckold, she feels torn between two men, when realistically your relationship changed that first time she had extremely satisfying sex. Now she recognizes her husband as an inadequate lover. Unfortunately when the two of you never had those kinds of honest discussions it doesn't end well. More often than not, she ends up taking off with the Superior Alpha Male because that is what she needs to be sexually, emotionally satisfied and there was never any confusion as to his role as the man.
When a husband wants his wife to engage in the cuckold fetish purely for his own sexual gratification and not hers, it typically does not end well. Just because you got into the interracial cuckold porn and it excited you does not mean she is going to get into it. You have to be honest and have some candid conversations. Most women do not understand why you would want another man to have sex with her. If there was never any prior discussion or agreement regarding roles and boundaries into the lifestyle, it's destined to fail. Without honest communication about the intimacy part of your relationship it's bound to break down. Now granted, if a husband constantly pushes his wife to do it and just doesn't give up no matter how many times he fails. She could have a weak moment and give in so you won't harass her anymore. So I have to admit a persistent husband occasionally will wear her down and she goes along with it to please him.
Unfortunately when there is no discussion or communication about each other's role in the cuckold relationship it spells disaster. She discovers she harbors resentment towards her husband because he still wants her to respond to him as her man even though she had never been so satisfied as she was with that first experience she just had with a passionate well endowed man. Plus he had tremendous stamina that led to multiple orgasams that she never experienced before.
When the husband is not ready or willing to give up his role as the dominant male and accept his place as the cuckold, she feels torn between two men, when realistically your relationship changed that first time she had extremely satisfying sex. Now she recognizes her husband as an inadequate lover. Unfortunately when the two of you never had those kinds of honest discussions it doesn't end well. More often than not, she ends up taking off with the Superior Alpha Male because that is what she needs to be sexually, emotionally satisfied and there was never any confusion as to his role as the man.
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