Why do you focus only on the size of the penis?

[Mkm]

Why do you focus only on the size of the penis? ... I know very well that the size is important, but there are also important things that must be focused on also - especially in long-term relationships - such as romance .. I mean that the bull has romance and feelings of affection also next to the size of the male there is a shape Sexual performance and experience in dealing with different ages .... What do you think of this?

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

i do not focus on penis size. i am attracted to Women and the size of your dick is irrelevant to me. Yes, there are many more important things. If a guy is a jerk, a big penis won't help. If a guy cannot respect the person he wants to get sexually involved with or he cannot respect other people's relationships, it's a red flag already.
And in the end, if a Woman is receiving the amount of pleasure she is longing for from a man who respects her (and her husband or boyfriend, if she has one) then why care about the size of his penis?

 

[Mskatieq]

Not sure where you came up with this? There’s a lot more than penis size that makes a man. It’s just one part of the whole package.

 

[Mkm]

i do not focus on penis size. i am attracted to Women and the size of your dick is irrelevant to me. Yes, there are many more important things. If a guy is a jerk, a big penis won't help. If a guy cannot respect the person he wants to get sexually involved with or he cannot respect other people's relationships, it's a red flag already.
And in the end, if a Woman is receiving the amount of pleasure she is longing for from a man who respects her (and her husband or boyfriend, if she has one) then why care about the size of his penis?

Great... That's what I really believe, too. I respect your opinion

 

[Mkm]

Not sure where you came up with this? There’s a lot more than penis size that makes a man. It’s just one part of the whole package.

I am very happy to find someone who supports my opinion ... Unfortunately, this is what I noticed by some on this site .... I also spoke with some of couple in fact and I noticed that their focus on this was basically what made me surprised and disgusted

 

[Tinyteddy]

Because it's fetish thing and the big cock it the turn on not passion and romance but thats just my take on it I mean lets be real everyone's different and there lots of different turn ons

 

[DMN]

Size isn’t the important thing....it’s the full package for me. For others it may be different based on what they want from the arrangement. It is truly to each his/her own.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

Because it's fetish thing and the big cock it the turn on (...)

i think the scientific term is "negrophallophilia".

 

[Mook974]

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[terryeaton]

We're talking about cuckolding here. Why would a couple go out and find a guy with a similar penis as bich boy?! Makes no sense. A MAN should have LONG penis , greater chance of pregnancy for the female more nature. And it should be THICK to spread those pussy lips nice and wide.

A woman can find a guy with a small dick anywhere. And as the man of a couple the last thing I'd wanna suck on is a tiny dick thank goodness most Black men are large. Love the feel of that nice big purple heart in my mouth while I'm fucking a chick...

 

[dancuck]

When Sarah choose her black lover, she did not know his penis size, it was on how they were together and the chemistry.

 

[SirACCB]

It depends on what a woman or couple is looking for. Some are precisely looking for size, but that might be for more of a fling situation. I would guess if it were a long term situation they are looking for a total package. What we as black men run into are the expectations that porn and stereotypes put on us to be expected to have porn-sized penises, which must of us don't. The term BBC can also be detrimental because it can reduce us to what we're packing, and sets a expectation. I think if women and couples are seeking black men, then say so. But if you say seeking "BBC", then that carries a specific message that you may not be intending to send if you're looking for something long term or more "real".

 

[endrzy]

I have 18cm so it is minimum i wanna. But 1st i am interested in hate fuck my fiance and train her to Perfect slut and cumwhore

 

[Mkm]

We're talking about cuckolding here. Why would a couple go out and find a guy with a similar penis as bich boy?! Makes no sense. A MAN should have LONG penis , greater chance of pregnancy for the female more nature. And it should be THICK to spread those pussy lips nice and wide.

A woman can find a guy with a small dick anywhere. And as the man of a couple the last thing I'd wanna suck on is a tiny dick thank goodness most Black men are large. Love the feel of that nice big purple heart in my mouth while I'm fucking a chick...

I agree with you but what I mean is not to be focus only in dick... No problem search for a big one also they must talk about all package... Do you understand what I mean?

 

[Mkm]

When Sarah choose her black lover, she did not know his penis size, it was on how they were together and the chemistry.

Yessss perfect... that what I mean ... Bravo sarah

 

[Mkm]

It depends on what a woman or couple is looking for. Some are precisely looking for size, but that might be for more of a fling situation. I would guess if it were a long term situation they are looking for a total package. What we as black men run into are the expectations that porn and stereotypes put on us to be expected to have porn-sized penises, which must of us don't. The term BBC can also be detrimental because it can reduce us to what we're packing, and sets a expectation. I think if women and couples are seeking black men, then say so. But if you say seeking "BBC", then that carries a specific message that you may not be intending to send if you're looking for something long term or more "real".

I agree with you

 

[Mkm]

I have 18cm so it is minimum i wanna. But 1st i am interested in hate fuck my fiance and train her to Perfect slut and cumwhore

OK ....A good and respectful point of view

 

[endrzy]

OK ....A good and respectful point of view

Thank you

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

We're talking about cuckolding here. (...)

Who says so? This is the general discussion and neither the thread's title nor the OP does say anything about cuckolding.

my personal preference is NOT to be a beta cuck boy Dom Master who decides for his Woman and her body whom she is entitled to fuck in order to satisfy his own SPH fetish. i am more focused on the Woman's pleasure. Her pleasure and gratification turns me on and satisfies me too in return. just sayin'

And no, her choice of pleasurable men does not necessarily depend on their penis sizes. Heck, my ex that i shared with others would always choose me before any other lover and i was NOT the biggest of the ones she'd been with.

 

[Mr&Ms TopCat]

I often get many messages by many men on here and the first thing they put out there is a penis pic as an introduction. It's about the whole package, not just the size of his penis. My BF @TopCat and I have strong chemistry and we sexually satisfy each other to the fullest,