I think that's what a lot of white girls like about black guys, for me at least, is the level of control and domination you have over us and the aggression to try/do whatever you want! It was kind of like that for swallowing, I thought it was gross so I never did it, but I don't think I've ever had a black guy warn me before they cum, even if I ask them to. so ALL of my white boyfriends thought I would never swallow, and my husband thinks it's a rare treat for him, but I've swallowed for black guys dozens of times!