My wife was against it, so I bought one anyway. I stripped naked, put it on, and walked in on her. She fucking loved it. She got so turned on. Within a day or two, she was insisting I wear it every day. She became a lot bossier too. Sometimes your wife just doesn't know what she wants or she's too afraid to say it. Mine is against everything until she tries it.god i want one so bad but my wife doesnt want to. i really need to talk about it with her