It's happening here in the south more and more! Some of my wife's divorced friends have started dating black and are loving it according to the wife. ;-)There is an old saying, "Word of mouth is the best advertising," and I think that applies here. The best recommendations come from happy women who are pleased with their bbc experience. As you said, it might be a family member, co-worker, friend, whoever. You tell her, she gets interested, and pretty soon you set her up with a chance to try one for herself.