The word "rough" has to be done in the right setting: I think if a married woman (like me) is naughty and wants to get fucked by a stranger cock (bbc or not) a touch of roughness ist the resent kick in such situation! The soft and sensual version you get at home anyway and(!) I won´t get a kick, if my husband will be rough. My husband is my sensual lover. The others are just fucktoys.