And then at your house plenty of times without asking you.First time was usually a hotel, then if they enjoyed each other he would be invited into our home.
And then at your house plenty of times without asking you.First time was usually a hotel, then if they enjoyed each other he would be invited into our home.
Thats urban myth. Its illegal to do so.Whatever you end up doing I would avoid using an AirBnB. Many owners of these homes place small, hidden cameras in them. This is less than ideal if you prefer discretion.
Agreed, AirBNB feels safe to me. Have fucked in pronably 30 and never thought this. Been heard a few times by owners and was actually walked in on twice whike we were fucking! But it was another guest and by accident.Thats urban myth. Its illegal to do so.
So we've finally locked in a long-term BBC bull, but he can't host and neither can we.
Hotels are okay, but the cost is going to add up and my wife said hotel hookups make it a bit harder for her to relax and get comfortable.
I tried posting about it on doublelist, fetlife, etc, but got nowhere. Would love to find someone with a spare bed and bath they rent out on Airbnb or something that's comfortable with the situation (and my wife's very very loud appreciation of BBC lol).... but I'm not sure how to approach hosts and filter out the weirdos.
Anyone have advice
Can I be your bull?Hit me up maybe I can help you find an area to play in that will please everyone.
Wake up on the wrong side of the bed today Annie? Just teasing, you know some people enjoy sex in the outdoors. It's a nice change of pace.I dont have anything to add here other than some of the suggestions are a bit absurd, like go fuck in a park or along the trails in the woods. Seriously if you need to have sex that bad that you will go fuck in a park or woods then OK. Seriously what your describing is pretty obviously a hotel situation but you dont want to pay to play. If you’re going to have extracurricular activities then sometimes a cost comes with it. Split the rate with the partner. If he’s not up for that then he’s just in for the chance to have sex with the wife. If that’s the case and you want to continue then prepare to have a semi regular set up or time at a hotel. It doesn’t have to be weekly for petes sake. Once a month? once every 2? Whatever you decide. If its really good then he should offer to pick it up every now and then. Renting a room in someone’s home or apartment to have sex in while they are there is just really tacky. I'm sorry to say that and if your offended if you do that then so be it. How would you feel to be sitting in your living room and a threesome comes in your front door and proceeds to have extremely loud sex for hours? If you’ve had it happen next to you in a hotel then you know its not the most erotic thing especially if its your home and your renting a room.
If Finances is not a issue you both could find a small apartment space for like a small getaway or a vacation use to get away. and split the cost and everything 50-50 and friends and family won’t know about it. Just have to find a local area that’s close enough to close.So we've finally locked in a long-term BBC bull, but he can't host and neither can we.
Hotels are okay, but the cost is going to add up and my wife said hotel hookups make it a bit harder for her to relax and get comfortable.
I tried posting about it on doublelist, fetlife, etc, but got nowhere. Would love to find someone with a spare bed and bath they rent out on Airbnb or something that's comfortable with the situation (and my wife's very very loud appreciation of BBC lol).... but I'm not sure how to approach hosts and filter out the weirdos.
Anyone have advice?
Annie say F the BSI dont have anything to add here other than some of the suggestions are a bit absurd, like go fuck in a park or along the trails in the woods. Seriously if you need to have sex that bad that you will go fuck in a park or woods then OK. Seriously what your describing is pretty obviously a hotel situation but you dont want to pay to play. If you’re going to have extracurricular activities then sometimes a cost comes with it. Split the rate with the partner. If he’s not up for that then he’s just in for the chance to have sex with the wife. If that’s the case and you want to continue then prepare to have a semi regular set up or time at a hotel. It doesn’t have to be weekly for petes sake. Once a month? once every 2? Whatever you decide. If its really good then he should offer to pick it up every now and then. Renting a room in someone’s home or apartment to have sex in while they are there is just really tacky. I'm sorry to say that and if your offended if you do that then so be it. How would you feel to be sitting in your living room and a threesome comes in your front door and proceeds to have extremely loud sex for hours? If you’ve had it happen next to you in a hotel then you know its not the most erotic thing especially if its your home and your renting a room.
Not true! Airbnb allows this as long as the client is fully informed of the cameras.Thats urban myth. Its illegal to do so.
Do you Arbnb? They are allows in non sensitive areas. Bedroom, bath and dressing areas are not permitted.Not true! Airbnb allows this as long as the client is fully informed of the cameras.
Yes. Cameras are prohibited in bedrooms and all bathrooms/shower facilities.Do you Arbnb? They are allows in non sensitive areas. Bedroom, bath and dressing areas are not permitted.
It isn't always that black/white. Personally I paid for hotel rooms but had to budget as I was a single parent (especially when I had two in college at same time!). I would also point out that some couples 'demand' luxurious room on the guy's dime. Like a couple from this site that would only meet if I got a room at the Crown Plaza-wasn't going to happen. On the other side of the coin I still appreciate the folks that told me to go online and find which state parks have cabins...I know of two parks on the beach and one with A frame loft bedrooms, all with fireplaces.I dont have anything to add here other than some of the suggestions are a bit absurd, like go fuck in a park or along the trails in the woods. Seriously if you need to have sex that bad that you will go fuck in a park or woods then OK. Seriously what your describing is pretty obviously a hotel situation but you dont want to pay to play. If you’re going to have extracurricular activities then sometimes a cost comes with it. Split the rate with the partner. If he’s not up for that then he’s just in for the chance to have sex with the wife. If that’s the case and you want to continue then prepare to have a semi regular set up or time at a hotel. It doesn’t have to be weekly for petes sake. Once a month? once every 2? Whatever you decide. If its really good then he should offer to pick it up every now and then. Renting a room in someone’s home or apartment to have sex in while they are there is just really tacky. I'm sorry to say that and if your offended if you do that then so be it. How would you feel to be sitting in your living room and a threesome comes in your front door and proceeds to have extremely loud sex for hours? If you’ve had it happen next to you in a hotel then you know its not the most erotic thing especially if its your home and your renting a room.
That’s ridiculous that they would say this place is where we want and you pay. If that’s what they want then that’s on them. My favorite is the Marriot, doesn’t have to be the JW but they have the best fuck me furniture! Lol these oversized almost love seat chairs they have are perfect for a multitude of positions and partners. Love it. I call it the princess throne.It isn't always that black/white. Personally I paid for hotel rooms but had to budget as I was a single parent (especially when I had two in college at same time!). I would also point out that some couples 'demand' luxurious room on the guy's dime. Like a couple from this site that would only meet if I got a room at the Crown Plaza-wasn't going to happen. On the other side of the coin I still appreciate the folks that told me to go online and find which state parks have cabins...I know of two parks on the beach and one with A frame loft bedrooms, all with fireplaces.
We prefer our home and in our own bed. but sex clubs seem to work or private parties are another option, if you cant afford a hotel. You could always drive them around town and let them fuck in the back seat of your car!So we've finally locked in a long-term BBC bull, but he can't host and neither can we.
Hotels are okay, but the cost is going to add up and my wife said hotel hookups make it a bit harder for her to relax and get comfortable.
I tried posting about it on doublelist, fetlife, etc, but got nowhere. Would love to find someone with a spare bed and bath they rent out on Airbnb or something that's comfortable with the situation (and my wife's very very loud appreciation of BBC lol).... but I'm not sure how to approach hosts and filter out the weirdos.
Anyone have advice?
Rent a camper. Or as we say in Europe, a Wohnmobile.Yeah, that's been the plan so far. We do enjoy having the hotel room for the remainder of the time it's booked as a little getaway, plus we can shower before heading back out. Just exploring ideas to see if anything more home-like was possible.
I've met some other couples in a similar situation since so many have family at home doing online school or work these days. Figured someone may have another way to plan a rendezvous.