Where are the bisexual black dudes?

dclsecret

Couple
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NE, US
I love the idea of finding a black bull for my wife, but since I am bisexual, ideally he would be a bull for BOTH of us (if bull is even still the right term).

I have gone on tinder and feeld and although we live in a pretty decent sized city it is crazy hard to find a guy that is down for that. It’s honestly hard to find any good bulls, especially bisexual ones, even if we don’t narrow it down by looking for black bulls specifically.

We have had a guy we saw for a few years in the past but when he got into a relationship he wasn’t able to get together anymore. We had a lot of fun and both my wife and I miss getting to suck big cock on the regular.

So is there something else I need to be trying or places I need to be looking?

Are not many black guys bisexual?

Is it only more common for younger guys (we are early 30s)?

Are we just in the wrong location (large-ish Midwest city)?

Would love to hear if anyone else has had luck finding a bull in a similar situation. I’m mainly only into oral for same sex stuff so I don’t feel like it should be so crazy to find.
 
In FL we have had no problem at all finding bulls who will let me suck them as well. I would say about half the guys we contact are good with it but not until we have a conversation do I ask this as I am on the DL about it and all the bulls are as well. They don’t want it advertised they are good with it. Go on Grindr and look in your area, I’ll bet you find some bi guys on there.
 
I love the idea of finding a black bull for my wife, but since I am bisexual, ideally he would be a bull for BOTH of us (if bull is even still the right term).

I have gone on tinder and feeld and although we live in a pretty decent sized city it is crazy hard to find a guy that is down for that. It’s honestly hard to find any good bulls, especially bisexual ones, even if we don’t narrow it down by looking for black bulls specifically.

We have had a guy we saw for a few years in the past but when he got into a relationship he wasn’t able to get together anymore. We had a lot of fun and both my wife and I miss getting to suck big cock on the regular.

So is there something else I need to be trying or places I need to be looking?

Are not many black guys bisexual?

Is it only more common for younger guys (we are early 30s)?

Are we just in the wrong location (large-ish Midwest city)?

Would love to hear if anyone else has had luck finding a bull in a similar situation. I’m mainly only into oral for same sex stuff so I don’t feel like it should be so crazy to find.
To be honest with you, sir, there are a lot of bulls who will allow touching and allow you to suck cock but it is so taboo among the black community that they’re afraid. I, myself, although not considered bi I do love playing with a couple but ONLY if the husband is somewhat feminine himself. A true cuckold hubby and couple are very much sought out by this bull.
 
I love the idea of finding a black bull for my wife, but since I am bisexual, ideally he would be a bull for BOTH of us (if bull is even still the right term).

I have gone on tinder and feeld and although we live in a pretty decent sized city it is crazy hard to find a guy that is down for that. It’s honestly hard to find any good bulls, especially bisexual ones, even if we don’t narrow it down by looking for black bulls specifically.

We have had a guy we saw for a few years in the past but when he got into a relationship he wasn’t able to get together anymore. We had a lot of fun and both my wife and I miss getting to suck big cock on the regular.

So is there something else I need to be trying or places I need to be looking?

Are not many black guys bisexual?

Is it only more common for younger guys (we are early 30s)?

Are we just in the wrong location (large-ish Midwest city)?

Would love to hear if anyone else has had luck finding a bull in a similar situation. I’m mainly only into oral for same sex stuff so I don’t feel like it should be so crazy to find.
Check out gay clubs and Gay Interracial groups.
 
this little community of ours is kind of weird. even me a year ago never thought I would like the cucks who suck but here we are. it’s a touchy subject even for those of us were hoping to it because some cucks will push the envelope. I experience guys that says they want to suck and then all of a sudden they wanna do more. Which is fine that they try, but I’m not into that.

Even I found that advertising that you’re in byplay can get you less attention. I feel like my pictures got more likes and reactions when I didn't put "bi bbc" which I thought would get more attention. I always put that in there just so couples know that I’m open to it, but I’m not actually byI always put that in there just so couples know that I’m open to it, but I’m not actually bi. As far as bulls and black men, there’s always gonna be a stigma of homophobia. But in this community, I think it’s definitely changing a lot so if you can keep doing what you’re doing I’m sure you’ll find some.
Yummmmmm
 
Me encanta la idea de encontrar un toro negro para mi esposa, pero como soy bisexual, lo ideal sería que fuera un toro para AMBOS (si es que toro sigue siendo el término correcto).

He estado en Tinder y Feeld y, aunque vivimos en una ciudad bastante grande, es muy difícil encontrar un chico que esté dispuesto a hacerlo. Honestamente, es difícil encontrar buenos hombres, especialmente bisexuales, incluso si no limitamos la búsqueda a hombres negros específicamente.

Salimos con un chico hace unos años, pero cuando empezó una relación no pudimos volver a estar juntos. Nos divertimos mucho y tanto mi esposa como yo extrañamos poder chupar pollas grandes con regularidad.

Entonces, ¿hay algo más que deba probar o lugares que deba buscar?

¿No ******* muchos chicos negros bisexuales?

¿Es más común sólo en chicos más jóvenes (tenemos alrededor de 30 años)?

¿Estamos simplemente en el lugar equivocado (una ciudad grande del Medio Oeste)?

Me encantaría saber si alguien más ha tenido suerte al encontrar un macho en una situación similar. Principalmente, solo me interesa el sexo oral entre personas del mismo sexo, así que no creo que sea una locura encontrarlo.
Nosotros te entendemos totalmente pues siendo una pareja swinger bisexuales los dos siempre es súper complejo encontrar a chicos sin importar color o tamaño que acepten tener sexo con los dos
 
this little community of ours is kind of weird. even me a year ago never thought I would like the cucks who suck but here we are. it’s a touchy subject even for those of us were hoping to it because some cucks will push the envelope. I experience guys that says they want to suck and then all of a sudden they wanna do more. Which is fine that they try, but I’m not into that.

Even I found that advertising that you’re in byplay can get you less attention. I feel like my pictures got more likes and reactions when I didn't put "bi bbc" which I thought would get more attention. I always put that in there just so couples know that I’m open to it, but I’m not actually byI always put that in there just so couples know that I’m open to it, but I’m not actually bi. As far as bulls and black men, there’s always gonna be a stigma of homophobia. But in this community, I think it’s definitely changing a lot so if you can keep doing what you’re doing I’m sure you’ll find some.
How would you suggest a couple go about approaching a potential bull about the subject? How have you been approached? We are looking to have some things in our holster for approaching others. More like ways that would not come off as pushy or awkward/make someone uncomfortable if they wanted to decline.
 
How would you suggest a couple go about approaching a potential bull about the subject? How have you been approached? We are looking to have some things in our holster for approaching others. More like ways that would not come off as pushy or awkward/make someone uncomfortable if they wanted to decline.
I wouldn't use the term "bi sexual" when seeking that kind of play. It infers a degree of homosexual and in some people's minds being homosexual means you're attracted to men. Me for instance, I'm ok with some mm contact but am not attracted to men, at all. First you should make it clear that you will participate and there might be some mm contact and ask how comfortable they are with that and to what degree. The follow up question should be asking what kind of experiences have they had and that should tell you all you need to know. It's just as hard to find couple where the cuck and wife shares together. Trust me, I'm looking 😂
 
this little community of ours is kind of weird. even me a year ago never thought I would like the cucks who suck but here we are. it’s a touchy subject even for those of us were hoping to it because some cucks will push the envelope. I experience guys that says they want to suck and then all of a sudden they wanna do more. Which is fine that they try, but I’m not into that.

Even I found that advertising that you’re in byplay can get you less attention. I feel like my pictures got more likes and reactions when I didn't put "bi bbc" which I thought would get more attention. I always put that in there just so couples know that I’m open to it, but I’m not actually byI always put that in there just so couples know that I’m open to it, but I’m not actually bi. As far as bulls and black men, there’s always gonna be a stigma of homophobia. But in this community, I think it’s definitely changing a lot so if you can keep doing what you’re doing I’m sure you’ll find some.
The reason is that there's a lot of cucks that are very interested in bottom play but their S/O doesn't know and they try to lure bulls in and then pull a bait and switch.
 
I wouldn't use the term "bi sexual" when seeking that kind of play. It infers a degree of homosexual and in some people's minds being homosexual means you're attracted to men. Me for instance, I'm ok with some mm contact but am not attracted to men, at all. First you should make it clear that you will participate and there might be some mm contact and ask how comfortable they are with that and to what degree. The follow up question should be asking what kind of experiences have they had and that should tell you all you need to know. It's just as hard to find couple where the cuck and wife shares together. Trust me, I'm looking 😂
Yeah, I feel you. We see that most Black guys that will play with a couple are seeking cuck energy and we're a Stag/Vixen couple, so no humiliation, nothing like that will fly. It's just stuff we'll have to get through in finding the right fit I guess. lol, thanks for the reply
 
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