I've dated (in order of volume) white, latina/white, latina/black, black, asian, asian/black, asian/white... and I've realized that I connect most with white women. I still find other races or mixes attractive, but when I look for the qualities I find most appealing in a woman, white women have had the most that I look for. I don't believe that makes me racist, I just discovered what appeals to me most.
As for women who say they are black-only, or black men who say they are white-ony, I don't find that racist either. They have found what appeals to them most and don't want to waste time with other types.
And maybe there are a few racists out there who don't want black or white or latino... or whatever. Who cares? They have a right to be racist, as long as it doesn't infringe upon the rights of other people.
In other words, focus on the ones who want you and forget about the ones who don't.
As for women who say they are black-only, or black men who say they are white-ony, I don't find that racist either. They have found what appeals to them most and don't want to waste time with other types.
And maybe there are a few racists out there who don't want black or white or latino... or whatever. Who cares? They have a right to be racist, as long as it doesn't infringe upon the rights of other people.
In other words, focus on the ones who want you and forget about the ones who don't.