One question.....When a white couple takes on a black male lover, is it more for her to crossover, while the husband watches? I've been with many white couples, and almost always the man defers to me to be with his wife, and he is there for protection, support and especially to watch! The more they adventure out, the more the husband either becomes an observer, the facilitator, or totally leaves the room so his wife or girlfriend and I can be together--alone. I wonder what the man feels when he's only an observer (or helps clean up towards the end). Left out? Happy his wife is enjoying herself? Humiliated, or just awaiting for the "happy ending!" On rare occasions, the husband seems almost perturbed and starts giving his wife or girlfriend orders--demanding her to pleasure me in a manner in which he seems to be the one who's getting the pleasure out of seeing her fucking me. She may become a bit distant and just go through the motions as he's urging her to let me "fuck her harder and deeper." On one occasion, I realized that I was actually hurting her by fucking her so hard and deep (I began to hear and feel her wincing instead of releasing a low, pleasurable moan--if we're paying attention to her, the difference is always noticeable). That's when I drew the line and thought, "no more!" To this day, unless the woman is enjoying a deep, hard fucking, I'll go for the full, seductive, love fuck versus the relentless hard pounding. Sorry hubby, this is when it becomes all about her!
