I wish it was only one fantasy, a few of these are maybe her fantasy too, at this point it’s probably 6 or 7, none of them specifically involve/require the other men be of a specific race. We’ve also dabbled in a few of these, so crossing the line from fantasy to reality.
In no particular order
1. Swinging/Swapping the whole lifestyle, this I think is most every man’s fantasy, a long time ago she was adamantly opposed, she’s slowly becoming more open.
2. Adult theater play with others, this kind of came about thanks to porn. I’ve always known about the whole glory hole thing, and women having sex with strange men in adult theaters, but this is different. Pre-covid, perusing one of the porn sites, came across “Cinema Gropers”, the videos originate from Europe, they are obviously staged, but this is a whole thing. Women being groped/played with by strangers while watching movies, not necessarily porn movies. On a few occasions, the wife and I would watch these movies, then have hot fuck sessions. I started to fantasize about it, we had a few discussions, I bought her a few sweaters that would be appropriate for this. One Sunday she put on one of the tops, no bra, took her out for brunch first (she admits a little alcohol helps), we went to an adult theater, sat down, didn’t take long before a guy reached up and started rubbing her shoulder, he then moved around beside her, when she didn’t stop him, he pulled her sweater aside and started to play with a breast. He got a little too aggressive, scared her off, while it’s still out there to try again(we watched a few other porno recently about this, she was pretty turned on) she’s not as keen on this one.
3. Being a slut, get naked and let others do as they want with her, not necessarily have sex. Few years back, Super Bowl Sunday, we had no interest in the game, that morning we were playing in bed, I’d gone down on her, she really wanted to fuck, instead I said no, let’s play. She gave me a quizzical look. I made her get up, get some sexy clothes together, but don’t get dressed. Fully naked, I put her long winter coat on her, put her clothes in a bag, we went to a local swingers hotel. In the car heading there, I made her expose and finger herself. I told her she was to allow anyone who wanted to could play with her, her only caveat, we agreed no penetration sex, and I would only watch and protect her. Over three hours, 4 different men played with her, she had at least 6 orgasms, she jacked off one man. We only did it once, but we’ve discussed doing it again.
4. Public exhibitionism, she’s got multiple summer dresses and low cut tops, unintentionally, intentionally let herself be exposed in public, maybe tease a waiter/waitress/valet and let them cop a feel. We’ve dabbled at this one, but she’s afraid of getting caught/arrested.
5. Gloryholes, we’ve watched a bunch of porn on this, it’s peaked her curiosity, but, she has pretty bad TMJ so giving blowjobs is out of the question in all sex play, she’ll lick and kiss a cock, but nothing more, so this one is up in the air, although going back to #2, I’ve suggested we hit a few gloryholes for random play, she’s on the fence.
6. Stranger sex (with me either only watching or participating), with strangers of her choosing, and this is part of what brought me to B2W. In the last 18 months this has become very close to reality, and probably will before summer is over.
7. Hotwifing, dressing up, going out and being picked up by a stranger and fucked, with me watching from across the room. This one is a yes/no on her end, she’s considered it, BUT, she absolutely will not be alone in a hotel room with a strange guy, she wants me there in case. She is also adamantly against going to the bar alone to be “picked up”. We’ve gone out a couple times for drinks where she has been randomly hit on. Just before covid, I bought a couple fictional books about couples doing this, she’s read one at least 10 times. So I know it’s in her brain.
8. Bisexual play, again, every guys fantasy, and as part of 1 or 6 something likely to happen. But recently, I realized my wife has a deep bi streak, and it leans towards much younger women ( we are in our late 50”s). Couple months ago, her phone crashed during an update while running diagnostics and cleaning it up, I stumbled across her Google search history, while I didn’t find specific keywords, there were 9 or 10 videos of older/younger women playing.
