What makes a genuine QoS?

[Sissycuckold85]

i have been married three times, all to gorgeous woman, luck me, of my three wives, my current and my first had prefer for Qos and preference of bbc lover, now my current wife is ebony still has preference from bbc only, but first wife, pinstripe suits by day, thong by night, didnt even know she was a Qos until eating her out one day, and saw Qos tat on inner thigh, she had been playing with me all this, next thing door bell i open muscled bbc at my door so hard, so intense, damn girl loved ever since, R.I.P that mine True Qos definition right there

 

[QOShotwifeDFW]

It's really subjective to the person. I think at It's core though, women who love fucking black men. That's it. They don't need a tatt, or have to be BBC only, but a strong preference and confidence around black men make her one.

What you just described is a snowbunny.

 

[ARedheadQoS]

What you just described

None of this stuff is real. It's not like we're talking about apples and oranges, because science would distinguish them by species. It's all based on behavior, and most importantly, opinion. And that opinion changes from person to person. Snowbunny, queen of spades...They both love fucking black men, and if there's a distinction, it's minor. Just like people use hotwife and vixen interchangeably. There's a spectrum to all of this and no real hard lines. They're blurred. Sure, someone might have their own idea of a distinction, but at the end of the day, it's just their opinion, and I've yet to meet the Mayor of Fuck-Terms. In short, none of it matters. Just have fun.

 

[QOShotwifeDFW]

I thought the poll was part of the fun, and if it helps clear up some of those blurred lines then so much the better!

 

[BigDick8181]

People seem to have varying opinions as to what defines a Queen of Spades. The term seems to be loosely defined. I know how I describe it to others but I’m curious to see what the answers are here.

I wouldn’t care honestly as long she pleases this BBC and she’s satisfied

 

[QOShotwifeDFW]

I wouldn’t care honestly as long she pleases this BBC and she’s satisfied

I think that would fall under the definition of “woman willing to have sex with BigDick8181”.

 

[BigDick8181]

I think that would fall under the definition of “woman willing to have sex with BigDick8181”.

You’re absolutely right. She definitely would thank me in the end! How are you? Got some sexy lips

 

[QOShotwifeDFW]

You’re absolutely right. She definitely would thank me in the end! How are you? Got some sexy lips

Thank you very much You can DM me.

 

[Jdingo619]

Being a QOS is really a mindset first and foremost! It's a woman who loves Black cock period!

You can be a QOS in your mindset and your sexual activities and only call yourself a hotwife or a swinger!

Just like any man can be in the position of a Bull and only think of himself as a single guy who swings and plays with couples!

 

[QOShotwifeDFW]

Being a QOS is really a mindset first and foremost! It's a woman who loves Black cock period!

You can be a QOS in your mindset and your sexual activities and only call yourself a hotwife or a swinger!

Just like any man can be in the position of a Bull and only think of himself as a single guy who swings and plays with couples!

I know there are plenty of guys that would argue about the free use of the term bull as well. That’s part of why I tend to avoid the term bull and prefer playmate since it avoids confusion or stigma.
I definitely agree that part of being a QOS is mindset but there’s also required activity that must take place as well, as you allude to. As a matter of fact, I was a QOS in my sexual activities and mindset prior to even knowing what a QOS was! What is interesting about being a QOS in the truest sense is that it is both cumulative and transient in nature; by which I mean that the status has several milestones that must be reached and certain proclivities and activities that must be maintained in order to remain an active QOS. For instance, if I were to stop having sex with black men and start having sex with a bunch of white guys would I still be able to call myself a QOS? If I’m not actively having sexual encounters with black men anymore then am I currently still considered a QOS due to past experience? If so, for how long could one be inactive in seeking out and having sex with black men and still be considered a QOS? Would that be considered as being a “retired” QOS? Is a QOS versus was a QOS kind of thing? So I think what this means is that one has to be actively seeking and having sex with black men to maintain QOS status. Kind of like if you were a swinger but stopped having sex outside of your relationship/marriage would you still be considered a swinger having previously swung? Just some thoughts.

 

[MT1975]

So far it appears that about 80% of you agree with what I believe to be the minimum requirements to be met before a woman can be called (or call themselves) a Queen of Spades.

Well, you definitely get to decide. You are a true QOS!

 

[BrianIRAddict]

I know there are plenty of guys that would argue about the free use of the term bull as well. That’s part of why I tend to avoid the term bull and prefer playmate since it avoids confusion or stigma.
I definitely agree that part of being a QOS is mindset but there’s also required activity that must take place as well, as you allude to. As a matter of fact, I was a QOS in my sexual activities and mindset prior to even knowing what a QOS was! What is interesting about being a QOS in the truest sense is that it is both cumulative and transient in nature; by which I mean that the status has several milestones that must be reached and certain proclivities and activities that must be maintained in order to remain an active QOS. For instance, if I were to stop having sex with black men and start having sex with a bunch of white guys would I still be able to call myself a QOS? If I’m not actively having sexual encounters with black men anymore then am I currently still considered a QOS due to past experience? If so, for how long could one be inactive in seeking out and having sex with black men and still be considered a QOS? Would that be considered as being a “retired” QOS? Is a QOS versus was a QOS kind of thing? So I think what this means is that one has to be actively seeking and having sex with black men to maintain QOS status. Kind of like if you were a swinger but stopped having sex outside of your relationship/marriage would you still be considered a swinger having previously swung? Just some thoughts.

I think the term makes the most sense to mean a white woman actively seeking out Black men to fuck. I don't think it's about the quantity but more about her own preference. So if she states a strong preference for Black men, then yes, she is a QOS.

 

[QOShotwifeDFW]

I think the term makes the most sense to mean a white woman actively seeking out Black men to fuck. I don't think it's about the quantity but more about her own preference. So if she states a strong preference for Black men, then yes, she is a QOS.

I honestly don’t think that’s enough. The term queen in this context suggests preeminence in the realm of having sex with black men. Merely a strong preference is not preeminence. This again goes back to a requirement of prerequisite action in order for the term to have merit. The term has less weight when it gets thrown around haphazardly to describe any woman that has ever wanted to have sex with a black man. This is where the term snowbunny becomes more appropriate. There is no insinuation of preeminence in that term so it is a better catch all to describe women with a preference for black men, regardless of the state of their sex life. I’m surprised more genuine Queens haven’t chimed in on this subject.

 

[SNJHWCPL]

Good thread. I was going to create one but someone got the same idea.

Does having one once or one on a regular basis count as a QOS?

Besides the tattoos or jewelry at obvious locations , where else do you look for clues?

 

[Bristolangela]

For me it’s primarily exclusivity and a willingness to please all those that enjoy the lifestyle?

 

[paolacpl]

Great thread, don’t understand why more haven’t Voted

Becouse the right answer is missed: in my opinion, a QoS is a lady that love black men and is devoted to them, with or without tjewelry or tattoo (they are only way to show her preferences)

 

[tj loser boy]

What you just described is a snowbunny.

Love them too

 

[Jmoney87]

Oh I’m number 6 alright.

A true goddess

 

[tj loser boy]

I don't think a tattoo, or wearing QUEEN clothing is a requirement. Just loving black cock and maybe cuckholding white boys!

 

[Kull711]

People seem to have varying opinions as to what defines a Queen of Spades. The term seems to be loosely defined. I know how I describe it to others but I’m curious to see what the answers are here.

What makes a genuine QOS ? that's a really good question that i was repeating in my mind when i saw this thread today and i came to a conclusion that it really depends how she appreciates and respects black men as human beings and as men on a regular basis. Being fetishized has its advantages and disadvantages with all the apparel, content, and community platforms that are connected with it, but it really comes down to how we're respected and treated as human beings.