The basis of this lifestyle is to have fun. Not to bring in children into your personal fantasy. And people want to complain this world today is fucked up. If people want to pop out a kid that looks like the neighbor then don’t bitch when the kid finds out what a “cuckoo” their parents really are. Have some personal respect for yourself and take responsibility ALL involved. That’s also what the lifestyle is about.Btw cuckold is derived from bird cuckoo cuckoo lays eggs in other birds next after eliminating other birds line.Thats the basis or origin of this life style