I know everyone is different and I don’t want to box everyone into one group. Here is me:
1) For me the dynamic goes from power play to creepy the moment the cuck makes it all about him. As if he is orchestrating everyone within the thin margin of what gets HIM off. I feel the same way with cucks who take the camera and like move the bulls balls aside to get a shot or ask them to reposition or do tricks for him... like, be a FUCKING cuck already! Also, you might be getting away with treating your wife like an object, but the bull isn’t your wife and definitely isn’t there to be treated like an object. He isn’t a gigolo! That’s just fucking disrespectful.
2) The bull is going to have my wife how ever they both consent. He is her man for the duration of the intercourse! Period! They are going to have sex, with all of the stuff that gets the bull and wife off, which include at LEAST what Robin already does with me.
3) What a shitty way to treat the bull and ruin the experience for everyone. I want to be hospitable and accommodating towards this man, and afford him the respect he deserves and WE deserve! He is going to make love to my wife, to the love of my life, and so you better believe the whole night will be conducted with the respect that the gravity of the situation requires.
4) I want the bull to fuck my wife and get off on it. But I also want him to find cucking me to be a delightful experience. Even before we do anything, I would like the bull to be excited about fucking her, and to be looking forward to cucking me. I want to be fun for both of them to be around and so for him to want me to be around. Instead of him dreading my presence.
Cuckolding isn’t therapy! It’s a kink! If you have personal issues, get help. If you have relationship issues get counseling for it! This isn’t the lifestyle for you!