Take the time to process your feelings. She might not be interested in other men so much. Think about everything, talk with her openly and you two have to be completely transparent. It'll work out if it's meant to be.Am confused lol. Sometimes I think she should do it if that's what makes her happy, sometimes it feels like she belongs to black men, other times if I accept this I should be in the sexual act too in an active role and sometimes it bothers me because she's my gf not the worlds