I feel like I was just not in the way you are asking. My wife invited a former lover and current coworker. His date got absolutely shitfaced and started screaming about him bringing her to the wedding of the “skinny white bitch he was fucking”. When my bride went to see what the commotion was, the ******* date starting calling her a whore for fucking her boyfriend. She wasn’t. She had broken it off the weekend after we got engaged. They spent that weekend “saying goodbye”.
Everybody heard the commotion; my brothers, my friends and worst of all, her *******. I spent the night convicting him it was just a ******* girl. In the end I think he believed me. Not because he thinks I’m man enough to satisfy my wife, he’s never respected me, but because he thinks no ******* of his would stoop so low as to sleep with a black guy.
He didn’t sleep with my wife that night, nobody did. She was angry and got ******* herself. But I’m sure some people suspected he did as, after he put his date in a cab, he came back in and followed my wife around all night while apologizing profusely. He was one of the last to leave. None of my friends ever asked about it but occasionally I’ll hear a snide comment about my cheating wife so I’m sure it’s discussed behind my back.