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Hello,

im a m28 and i have a beautiful, sexy, blonde, longterm girlfriend w23. I'm often working, busy and not at home so we agreed that she can do sexting with other men on the internet. As far as i know she loved doing that. We havent had a lot of sex the last 2 years, rather short and more or less with her having a "dry" pussy. Since she started sexting our number of sex increased to 2-4 times a week and she was always very horny and wet. One day while we were talking about her sexting i confessed that i like cuckolding. I was surprised that she was very understanding and the next 2 days we even had sex without her sexting with others. I got her wet by telling her about cuckolding fantasies, her having sex with one or two other men and me being in a chastity cage meanwhile. It made her obviously very horny.

Now here come the problems:

1) Although we experimented with chastity cages and she held me chaste for hours and days in a row within a session of 1-2 weeks, she is normaly a sub and dont realy know or want to handle this. But i tried it alot, the only way to bring me into cuckold mode is by not having orgasms, being edged multiple times daily and held chaste in a cage. What can i do? Maybe she doesnt like to handle it too much (letting me out a lot) or something, i dont know. Im not very experienced in that yet but for her pleassure i'd try to train as hard as possible to be able to wear it 24/7 mostly.

2) I completly fucked up yesterday when i told her it might be better to stop sexting. I did so because i feared bad about other males giving her pleassure and satisfaction while i wasnt able to for a long time now. I used to be her Dom and we have great sex, but now it seems she wants to have other men as their dom. I want her to have the sexual satisfaction she needs and she always had the urge to have more men than the usual girl next door. Any suggestions here?

Thank you for your input!
 
Be very very sure that it's what you BOTH want. Then go into it TOGETHER and remain honest with each other. Take it really SLOWLY and accept sometimes you may need / want to take a step back to pause and think about things before moving forward again. Hopefully you'll both get off on it and have a fantastic time!

Oh and post pictures please.
 
Be very very sure that it's what you BOTH want. Then go into it TOGETHER and remain honest with each other. Take it really SLOWLY and accept sometimes you may need / want to take a step back to pause and think about things before moving forward again. Hopefully you'll both get off on it and have a fantastic time!
be open and honest, its the only way it will work.
 
Hello,

im a m28 and i have a beautiful, sexy, blonde, longterm girlfriend w23. I'm often working, busy and not at home so we agreed that she can do sexting with other men on the internet. As far as i know she loved doing that. We havent had a lot of sex the last 2 years, rather short and more or less with her having a "dry" pussy. Since she started sexting our number of sex increased to 2-4 times a week and she was always very horny and wet. One day while we were talking about her sexting i confessed that i like cuckolding. I was surprised that she was very understanding and the next 2 days we even had sex without her sexting with others. I got her wet by telling her about cuckolding fantasies, her having sex with one or two other men and me being in a chastity cage meanwhile. It made her obviously very horny.

Now here come the problems:

1) Although we experimented with chastity cages and she held me chaste for hours and days in a row within a session of 1-2 weeks, she is normaly a sub and dont realy know or want to handle this. But i tried it alot, the only way to bring me into cuckold mode is by not having orgasms, being edged multiple times daily and held chaste in a cage. What can i do? Maybe she doesnt like to handle it too much (letting me out a lot) or something, i dont know. Im not very experienced in that yet but for her pleassure i'd try to train as hard as possible to be able to wear it 24/7 mostly.

2) I completly fucked up yesterday when i told her it might be better to stop sexting. I did so because i feared bad about other males giving her pleassure and satisfaction while i wasnt able to for a long time now. I used to be her Dom and we have great sex, but now it seems she wants to have other men as their dom. I want her to have the sexual satisfaction she needs and she always had the urge to have more men than the usual girl next door. Any suggestions here?

Thank you for your input!
Personally, I wouldn't do anything that may jeopardize my relationship, like losing my wife to anyone....lol.
Everyone here is different. Make sure you and your gf know exactly what you want and looking for....
Don't believe everything you see here is real.

We don't play unprotected with anyone. We are here just for fun, which means no intimacy, no gangbang, no anal. Safety and health is a must.
We don't Jump in bed with anyone. Take your time to vet out the real, serious, and start by chatting-video call-meet up in public...etc.
 
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