unsure of next step

satori99999001

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I returned home earlier from work one day (thursday) and saw my wife in bed with a younger guy. I say "I saw" because they did not see me. I stayed and watched and to my shock and surprise had the biggest erection ever. I was frozen and could not believe I di don't open the door or said anything. I loved seeing her so happy and left the house before they had finished. I quickly realised this wasn't a one off and made sure to leave work a little bit earlier every thursday to see the same scene in front of my eyes. I brought up one day the fact that if she wanted to see anyone else, she could always openly discuss, but she said she'd never do that, hiding what I already knew. And have not had the guts to bring up again. she has gone away with her "friends" for girly weekends a couple of times but I wonder if that really happened. I am in two minds as to tell her or not as I do not want to break the magic and really she has been happier around the house. I must say that this has gone on for months and it's not always the same guy, as they vary quite a bit. I love her and do not want to lose or or confront her. It gets me excited and also I find it quite intense. Never thought this would happen.
 
Slowly start bringing up swinging in casual conversation. Mention that sounds interesting. And mention to her how hot she is and it would be fun to have her jump another guy.
 
Slowly start bringing up swinging in casual conversation. Mention that sounds interesting. And mention to her how hot she is and it would be fun to have her jump another guy.
and to piggyback off of that mention how you would love to watch her with someone else
 
Thank you so much for your kind advice. It could be a plan. I am so scared of her getting angry. I was thinking maybe to watch a movie where that happens and then make a comment and see how that goes... from her internet browser history, she is watching lots of situations like that, so it's not only something she is doing but also something she keeps thinking about. I am really scared to break the magic.
 
Defiantly, movie anything that can leave an opening for a subtle hint. So, is she into black men only outside of the house?
 
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