Understanding sexual dynamics post-cuckold discussion.

Just prior to being initially cuckolded, how was your sex life?

  • No change - had regular sex up to being cuckolded

    Votes: 37 41.6%

  • Reduced sex - still got penetrative sex just a lot less

    Votes: 23 25.8%

  • Sexually denied or ruined orgasm but sexually pleasured her

    Votes: 5 5.6%

  • Wife would take care of me, but no interested in being sexually pleasured

    Votes: 14 15.7%

  • Cut-off from the pussy - but sexually playful

    Votes: 13 14.6%

  • Cutt-off completely - no interest in sex

    Votes: 6 6.7%
  • Total voters
    89
enjoynlife

enjoynlife

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In trying to understand or better read changes in the bedroom, I am curious about cuckold's sex life just prior to be cuckolded for the first time. In my situation, we recently had a deep cuckolding conversation where I affirmed to her that I would be ok and happy with her going on a date (or staying the night) with a Bull without me. This definitely sparked more discussion. I am not sure if she had anyone in mind or this was just trying to understand her left-right limits to playing, but in the weeks that followed the discussion, I have noticed a significant decline in our bedroom activities and the last couple of times I initiated "sex" instead of just playing with my cock a bit, she jerked me to completion and I ate her out to orgasm/use the toy or she lacked interest. Is this headed in the right/wrong direction or am I just reading too much into this...it has just been the last couple of times.
 
enjoynlife said:
Thanks - always good to get some reassurance that (sex) life is on track.
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Happened to me with my college gf. She was cheating on me with a middle age black man for almost a year before I found out. During that year our sex life changed a TON and I didn’t know until I looked back on it. We got to the point that we would never have actual sex. Instead our intimate time in the bedroom was just me eating her out almost daily and her watching me jack off on my own. This was all while we watched porn together, which was exclusively interracial porn videos. We both really got into it and I loved how wet she got watch those vids while I ate her pussy. I eventually found out that I had been eating black cum from her pussy for a year. She was
Coming home after being with him and having me go down on her. Dumb me just thought she was super wet from being turned on by me. We had a huge fight and separated for a little while but got back together and I officially became a cuckold. Our bull was really cool and we all had a good time for several years after that.
 
We had a great sex life before cuckolding. Years later we still do but it looks very different.

She gave me a choice to be a cuckold; but at that time we had already evolved into a full time D/s relationship with me as her submissive. She is a dominatrix- and cuckolding was only another way she chose to elevate her dominance and control over me.

Sex is about her. I masturbate her or lick her, but my enjoyment is absolutely not considered. These days she could care less about my enjoyment or orgasms in her normal playtime with me.

Nowadays I have to have permission to touch my wife's bare breast or pussy. I have been locked in chastity for several years and my releases for a spill come as a reward for docile compliance. I get these on average about once a month. At that time she will treat me to an orgasm, but I absolutely am not allowed to touch myself or rub one out. All my orgasms are controlled by her.

The normal release involves her hand milking me in the shower or I am allowed to rub my bare penis against her leg with some lube. During these times my hands are restrained and she carefully monitors the pace of my excitement.

Very rarely do I get a full orgasm, it's almost universally a ruin.

On the rare times I'm given PIV she sits on top and holds my arms down. The second I begin to cum, which is usually about 5 seconds after feeling her pussy around my dick(!) she will clamp down and refuse to move. I can thrust uselessly but it's a ruin every time. During these times is especially when I hear about how she prefers to have a monster BBC in her and I will always be her cuckold.

Any of her bulls spend far more time in her pussy in one evening than I do in an entire year. This is my life as a cuckold, but I serve a dominant Wife who absolutely rules over me. I'm a submissive male. Most cucks are different I think.

The one thing that people many here don't understand is the love between a Hotwife and her cuckold. That is often special.

In my case she absolutely treasures me as her husband as well as a collared male submissive. She enjoys other men but she will never ever have a moment of romantic interest in them or a serious care about their welfare. Bulls are only toys and used that way. Love is reserved only for one person- me. For this she gets my undying loyalty and devotion, as I know I am the only man that she will love in that way.

A few times a year she will enjoy me missionary, wrap her arms and legs around me, and tell me to make love to her and fill her up whenever I'm ready. And no man will ever hear her say that but me.
 
enjoynlife said:
In trying to understand or better read changes in the bedroom, I am curious about cuckold's sex life just prior to be cuckolded for the first time. In my situation, we recently had a deep cuckolding conversation where I affirmed to her that I would be ok and happy with her going on a date (or staying the night) with a Bull without me. This definitely sparked more discussion. I am not sure if she had anyone in mind or this was just trying to understand her left-right limits to playing, but in the weeks that followed the discussion, I have noticed a significant decline in our bedroom activities and the last couple of times I initiated "sex" instead of just playing with my cock a bit, she jerked me to completion and I ate her out to orgasm/use the toy or she lacked interest. Is this headed in the right/wrong direction or am I just reading too much into this...it has just been the last couple of times.
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When you and your wife had that last discussion, was she already seeing someone, or are you both new at this?
 
It is hard to explain to a non-cuck how going pussyfree is not some great punishment, especially for small dick cucks like me. It feels very natural, and actually liberating, to not have to perform by some societal rule of what a man and wife are supposed to do in a marriage. While I have not had intercourse with her in 6 or 7 years, and I am caged most of the time, I feel more sexually satisfied like this than I ever did poking her with my tiny dick early in our relationship. And I know she is more sexually satisfied.
 
Ben45mwm said:
It is hard to explain to a non-cuck how going pussyfree is not some great punishment, especially for small dick cucks like me. It feels very natural, and actually liberating, to not have to perform by some societal rule of what a man and wife are supposed to do in a marriage. While I have not had intercourse with her in 6 or 7 years, and I am caged most of the time, I feel more sexually satisfied like this than I ever did poking her with my tiny dick early in our relationship. And I know she is more sexually satisfied.
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I am still a wannabe but have been pussyfree for many many years. It does feel very natural and liberating. It has also changed me as I am now very submissive. Not attracted to men but now do enjoy giving pleasure to cock. At this point I do not see going back to pussy which saddens me a little but have accepted. I do wish I could explore being caged.
 
erijo007 said:
Happened to me with my college gf. She was cheating on me with a middle age black man for almost a year before I found out. During that year our sex life changed a TON and I didn’t know until I looked back on it. We got to the point that we would never have actual sex. Instead our intimate time in the bedroom was just me eating her out almost daily and her watching me jack off on my own. This was all while we watched porn together, which was exclusively interracial porn videos. We both really got into it and I loved how wet she got watch those vids while I ate her pussy. I eventually found out that I had been eating black cum from her pussy for a year. She was
Coming home after being with him and having me go down on her. Dumb me just thought she was super wet from being turned on by me. We had a huge fight and separated for a little while but got back together and I officially became a cuckold. Our bull was really cool and we all had a good time for several years after that.
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What does it taste like?
 
nancyscuck said:
I am still a wannabe but have been pussyfree for many many years. It does feel very natural and liberating. It has also changed me as I am now very submissive. Not attracted to men but now do enjoy giving pleasure to cock. At this point I do not see going back to pussy which saddens me a little but have accepted. I do wish I could explore being caged.
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Is "Nancy" still a part of your life - girlfriend or wife?
 
Ben45mwm said:
It is hard to explain to a non-cuck how going pussyfree is not some great punishment, especially for small dick cucks like me. It feels very natural, and actually liberating, to not have to perform by some societal rule of what a man and wife are supposed to do in a marriage. While I have not had intercourse with her in 6 or 7 years, and I am caged most of the time, I feel more sexually satisfied like this than I ever did poking her with my tiny dick early in our relationship. And I know she is more sexually satisfied.
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I agree - being pussy-free is not for everyone, but can be sexually liberating knowing you don't have the pressure of not sexually pleasing your wife/gf...but knowing a strong/confident Alpha-male is taking care of that desire for the both of you.
 
I think most cucks tend to be submissive males, or at least submit to their wife. By default, they accept pussy reduction or even pussy free as part of being a cuck. There isn't anything inherently wrong about this. We all make sacrifices for those we love, be it doing a chore you dislike, or buying them a car you worked for, etc. Accepting reduced pussy rights is a gift a cuck grants to his wife. He may be ok with it, he may suffer with it, but it comes part and parcel with being cuckolded imho. I mean, she isn't giving that pussy to him right now is she?

A wife that in turn lets her cuck serve others is granting her cuck a gift as well. More precisely she is gifting the wider world. Every dude likes to get sucked off, and some cucks provide this service. There is nothing wrong with that either.

There are I'm sure some cucks that are allowed to play with other women, and those lucky bastards are pretty rare, although to be honest a man in that category is probably better labeled a stag or a swinger than a cuckold.
 
As mentioned above I am a pussyfree wannabe. I do not recall what came first, being a wannabe or pussyfree. I relate to your comments other than being allowed to play with other women. Actually if allowed that would be another form of humiliation as I would not be able to please them either.
 
nancyscuck said:
As mentioned above I am a pussyfree wannabe. I do not recall what came first, being a wannabe or pussyfree. I relate to your comments other than being allowed to play with other women. Actually if allowed that would be another form of humiliation as I would not be able to please them either.
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Curious, did you become pussy-free by your own choice or your wife?
 
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