We also prefer the long term relationships. A few months after we started this my wife suggested that we at least give this a try. She simply said that the sex was much better after she got to know and like a man, which made perfect sense to me, so we gave it a try. That was a bit over two years ago and we are still involved in long term. Some of those relationships have lasted for months! I hope it works as well for you two as it has for usHappily married couple in Tyler TX area needs to find a LOCAL black gentleman to join our relationship - preferably for long-term & regularly