Toxic Fetishism vs. Preference

darkginger9

Female
What's your line in the sand between a white girl preferring black men vs. having a fetish and/or a toxic attitude about it? For me, it's ignorant to think there isn't some level of fetishism in an interracial relationship or ir sex in general. No white girl fucks a black guy or vice versa without a racial factor crossing their minds. And pornography, which this site is made for, ultimately caters to that fetishism.
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It's a difficult subject in this space.

On one hand, a big part of this kink for many is the female partner fucking someone bigger and better than her usual partner. We can't deny the taboo nature of many kinks, and if all participating members want to lean into the "black superiority/BNWO" play in the bedroom then as long as all members are aware it's just fetish talk and don't actually believe in racist views, then that's one thing. I think the problem arises with the roleplaying/fetishism online. While some people might just be turned on and fetish talking, other people will see it and not know it, and like with everything on the internet, someone will take it literally and from there it will spread.

Are there racial roots in this kink? I'd say absolutely so.

Can it still be participated in a safe and healthy way if you are aware of those roots and seek to exclude them from your lifestyle? I also believe so.

Personally, I think big dicks look better and generally they're better for sex. I also think black dicks going into white pussies looks hot. Put those 2 ideas together and here I am. Do I think all black Men have huge dicks? No. Do I think they fuck better for animalistic reasons? No. Would any of my behaviors outside of the bedroom indicate hate or favorability towards one race or the other? No. But in the bedroom that's where my preferences lie.
 
It's a difficult subject in this space.

On one hand, a big part of this kink for many is the female partner fucking someone bigger and better than her usual partner. We can't deny the taboo nature of many kinks, and if all participating members want to lean into the "black superiority/BNWO" play in the bedroom then as long as all members are aware it's just fetish talk and don't actually believe in racist views, then that's one thing. I think the problem arises with the roleplaying/fetishism online. While some people might just be turned on and fetish talking, other people will see it and not know it, and like with everything on the internet, someone will take it literally and from there it will spread.

Are there racial roots in this kink? I'd say absolutely so.

Can it still be participated in a safe and healthy way if you are aware of those roots and seek to exclude them from your lifestyle? I also believe so.

Personally, I think big dicks look better and generally they're better for sex. I also think black dicks going into white pussies looks hot. Put those 2 ideas together and here I am. Do I think all black Men have huge dicks? No. Do I think they fuck better for animalistic reasons? No. Would any of my behaviors outside of the bedroom indicate hate or favorability towards one race or the other? No. But in the bedroom that's where my preferences lie.
I think this is the best response. I am exhausted about being told I am fetishized or fetishizing my partners. But also, I realize there are levels to this racist bull.
 
Sounds like someone is getting upset... A lot of times... We know what that means... Be me personally.... I am just very attracted to white women. I love the way they look.. I love how their body feels when they are with me. Maybe its because they give a different type of energy when they are with me.. Some women... Not going to say who... But they do not appreciate the entire black guy because they have had it their entire life... Just saying.... It has nothing to do with racial motivation for me....
 
Sounds like someone is getting upset... A lot of times... We know what that means... Be me personally.... I am just very attracted to white women. I love the way they look.. I love how their body feels when they are with me. Maybe its because they give a different type of energy when they are with me.. Some women... Not going to say who... But they do not appreciate the entire black guy because they have had it their entire life... Just saying.... It has nothing to do with racial motivation for me....
While I agree wholeheartedly, this is how i feel towards black men. There is a level of fetishism tho? You specified white, different energy, "the entire black guy",.... there is a racial aspect.
 
While I agree wholeheartedly, this is how i feel towards black men. There is a level of fetishism tho? You specified white, different energy, "the entire black guy",.... there is a racial aspect.
Since it's sadly still taboo unfortunately it runs risk of becoming toxic fetishism. Hopefully once this is fully normalized it will become a natural balanced state
 
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