Thoughts on what this could mean...

[RichMann]

My wife and I were at the gym last night and after finishing our workout, I had to go to the car to get my wallet for us to buy shakes. I pass by and she gets in line. I see two young black men in line just ahead of her, but pay no real attention.
We get our shakes and move on to home. Once there we go through our normal routine... dinner, relaxing a bit, then to bed. Prior to bed as we were about to take showers, she mentions to me, out of the blue, that she had “caught” those two younger black guys checking her out and making complimentary comments about her to each other.... she plays it off a little to just steer the conversation... but, I am wondering what motivated her to say this and what was possibly going through her mind? Real, adult commentary and responses, please.

 

[She said yes]

Well, we went to bed last night and she was very in the mood. So, we started as we normally do. We have an outstanding sexual relationship and always have. It’s a centering point for us both. We enjoy toys and extras... and I can always tell when she wants me to get one of the “larger” items she prefers at times. I did and she enjoyed as usual... I believe she downplays just how much she enjoys that and anothe toy, making excuses like “it’s cold” or it’s not what the real thing feels like.... and I get that... for sure. She orgasmed and then I followed and finished up as we do on those nights... it was good, as usual. I just feel like there is something underlying that isn’t being shared... maybe to spare my feelings?

Pm me let’s talk

 

[Hotwife4aBBC]

She's testing the water. Lucky dog. Take her out where there are bound to be more black men, see how she reacts.

 

[Stlcouple0701]

I think in that exact moment she was thinking about those two black men having their way with her...but what do I know

 

[cutiepibi]

keep it simple and ask her this: 'did it excite you that those black guys were getting hot for you?'

 

[RichMann]

I think in that exact moment she was thinking about those two black men having their way with her...but what do I know

Why do you think she’s hesitant to tell me that exactly?

 

[Stlcouple0701]

Why do you think she’s hesitant to tell me that exactly?

Because she doesn’t want you to jump her *******. She is testing the waters is my guess. Now it’s your turn to test them back.

 

[VVERNBULL]

Sounds like she’s feeling you out for a reaction.....however if she’s sending covert flirty text messages to another guy behind your back and not being open and honest about it, you’re heading for a ******* storm of trouble. This shows she is willing to push these boundaries whether you are part of it or not. By not speaking to her you are just losing control of the situation and letting it develop around you regardless. Best get your twopenneth worth in and have done with it. If it’s going to happen it might as well happen with you on board and everything all out in the open than not. If it happens behind your back it’s not cuckolding, it’s cheating plain and simple and your marriage will go down the swanny as a result. Get in there and make it a mutual thing NOW!

 

[RichMann]

Sounds like she’s feeling you out for a reaction.....however if she’s sending covert flirty text messages to another guy behind your back and not being open and honest about it, you’re heading for a ******* storm of trouble. This shows she is willing to push these boundaries whether you are part of it or not. By not speaking to her you are just losing control of the situation and letting it develop around you regardless. Best get your twopenneth worth in and have done with it. If it’s going to happen it might as well happen with you on board and everything all out in the open than not. If it happens behind your back it’s not cuckolding, it’s cheating plain and simple and your marriage will go down the swanny as a result. Get in there and make it a mutual thing NOW!

This is spot on I think. To note, I’m not looking for the cuck experience. That’s just not me. I know that’s sounds odd, but whatever. I appreciate everyone’s thoughts and opinions here. I need to approach her and see if in fact what everyone thinks is true. Or... if she will just hide from her true thoughts and feelings for all of the reasons everyone listed. I still don’t know HOW I’m going to broach the topic.... but I will find a way.

 

[Stlcouple0701]

This is spot on I think. To note, I’m not looking for the cuck experience. That’s just not me. I know that’s sounds odd, but whatever. I appreciate everyone’s thoughts and opinions here. I need to approach her and see if in fact what everyone thinks is true. Or... if she will just hide from her true thoughts and feelings for all of the reasons everyone listed. I still don’t know HOW I’m going to broach the topic.... but I will find a way.

Do you guys watch porn together and if so what type do You watch?