A joke I once heard : If there isn’t a general tendency for women to like bigger cock, then where are all of the three inch, skinny dildos?
Hehe, true. But those do exist. One of my ex girlfriends had one that was even smaller. It was part of a toy box along other toys though and my guess is she wouldn't have purchased it, if it were to be bought standalone. Anyway she actually enjoyed playing with it. Perhaps that was because of its "real" (penis-like) shape or because it was easy to use (you could stick in on a finger) or both - but it made her moan for real, who would have thought.
Her
preference for toys was way different though as she was more into vibrating ones. For the non-vibrating dildos she had an interest in being challenged by their sizes. So she tried different ones and started with a smaller ("average", actually) one and worked her way up to the biggest sizes her vagina was enabled to accomodate fully. i noticed a few things...
First, the maximum size she was able to take depended on the days of her cycle. Two weeks after her period she would take bigger ones (up to 9") than a week prior to it (not more than 8"). The biggest she would take fully was nine inches when she bottomed out and stretched. She said it was not pleasurable for her which i was also able to notice. The next smaller size (8 1/2") was the one she would have strong orgasms with. - So you see what a difference only half an inch can make!
Other than that we have discussed another topic... Like many Women she made a difference between the perfect size for a penis to have on a regular basis ("boyfriend dick") and the preferred size for a one night stand ("porn dick"?). For the former she claimed that mine was perfect (of course!
- i was between 6 1/2 and 7", at that time closer to seven); for the latter she said 8" would be great! i already knew her very well and well enough to know that she wouldn't have minded a regular lover with a dick of 7 1/2" either (or me packing that.
).
So to sum it up:
my penis: 6.5-7.0,
ex GF's preference for regular dick: 7.5,
her preference for ONS/every-once-in-a-while dick: 8.0-8.5 and
for inbetweens: her toys (vibrating for clit stimulation; 2.5 inch "finger penis", butt plug, "regular" girthy 7 inch dildo, etc. etc.)