sounds great. the honesty and transparency with your spouse is the most important thing.
I have to say, i continue to get emails here from husbands, who with all sincerety are insensitive toward their wives and partners. So I feel its important to mention this here.
Gentleman, if you want your girlfriend or wife to have sex with a black man or any man - would you please be considerate about it. I understand it's your fantasy. But can you for one second keep your fantasy in your pants and remember that your gf or wife is a good person - and traditionally, good people do not fuck other people.
I am a little frustrated and annoyed that I have to field emails from men, begging me to help them convince their gf or wife to fuck a black man. Gee Whiz...settle down guys.
First, if that's all you want, and it's that important to you - then stop begging. You sound desperate and frankly if I was your gf or wife, id divorce you to begin with. You clearly are no longer a man, you're a whiny little girl. Now for the men that agree with me "yes, im a little girl." And you want to be cuckolded or sissified - when you contact a man like me, and I tell you to shut up - then shut up. You're a little girl, and I'm a real man and you have no business arguing with me.
I adore women, I love women, I cherish women. Therefore, be compassionate and understanding. If a good woman tells you, "honey, Im not sure about having sex with another man." Then stop bugging her.
If it's a fantasy you cant live without, then all you need to do is to tell your gf or wife "this is a fantasy that truly makes me hot and I dont want to disrespect you, so I want to love you and cherish you, therefore may I have your approval to speak with a Real Man about this?"
She will probably ask you, what you are talking about?
At this point, you should tell her that you've done research on the topic and there are men out there with experience, intelligence and compassion, who won't screw up our relationship. Because I heard what you said, and you dont want to have sex with someone else, and that's why I love you, but you dont understand that Im not asking you to have sex with another man, Im asking you to have sex with a real man, because I'm whiny little girl and you deserve sex with someone better than me.
If you arent willing to tell your gf or wife that you arent worth anything in bed, then please dont email me. It's a complete waste of my time and it's a waste of your gf or wife's time.
I apologize for being a bit preachy, but I am seriously getting too many emails from men that waste my time.
