It is not a matter of a white guy or husband that can not please the woman,making love is not about size or couler...BUT in a trusting realationship it is to please and give your partner the best sex and fun times,and lets be real most white guys cant compare with black guys.I loved it to see her enjoy herself completely in a way i could never please her...it was not making love,IT was pleasure and to be able to give her the satisfaction and pleasure i cant give is the best you can give,and for her to be able to be herself without feeling guilty is the most wonderfull gift you can give